Here is my entry for the terminal's redfish rally curation challenge
Week 1 - THE TERMINAL - #THEKITTYPHOTOCHALLENGE - BILINGUAL - June 1 - 7, 2020
The challenge is to choose one of the 3 photos above in the thumbnail picture to this Week 4 Photo Challenge blog [excluding the Quality Content image of @thekittygirl];
I will be choosing this picture below, which resulted to my topic: LOVE RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE
When you are in a relationship with someone; it means you both are seeing out and spending the most time together, you both have feelings for each other while marriage is when you guys finally choose to make the decision to be one forever.
Some relationships fail because they didn't begin well. I know you will be thinking about what I meant by begin well, What I mean is, "both parties never got know each other deeply". For a relationship where both partners starts as just friends, get to know more about each other and also hang out together, the feelings grow to become mutual. These kind of relationship doesn't need the guy ask the lady to be his girlfriend or the girl proposing to the guy 😅 (yeah if you are thinking, some girls asks some guys out). I'm talking of a relationship where you guys become totally open and become best friends. These kinds of relationships mostly lead to marriage because both parties are in tune, and trust have been built up in both parties.
I have seen a guy who just barely knew a girl for about a months, and then asked her to be his girlfriend. I won't say it is wrong but, was he asking her out because you are attracted to her or just to while away time?. I believe love relationships are best when you take things slow and let mutual feelings grow. If nothing works out he or she isn't for you, therefore move on. The feelings should grow from both sides, not just to walk up to someone you have barely known not up to 6 months and propose.
Now, relationships that have grown from friends to bestfriends, then to lovers is the kind that end in marriage. In this kind of relationship both partners would have know all their likes, and dislikes.There are many relationships that don't end in marriage mostly because of lack of communication or there wasn't enough mutual feeling.
Most short love relationships that end up in marriage may result to getting married to a partner they barely know. This could thereafter end in regret or divorce because all sorts of uncommon behaviours would begin to showcase after marriage. Then they begin to learn some things about their partners when already married.
The point when the relationship starts as a friendship level which then grows to courtship and then marriage, those stages is when you get to know if you can live your whole life with your partner. It is during this stage you would figure out if your partner is an abusive person, or could be a cheat or something else if not worse. It is the stage to get to know each other and decide if it could end up becoming a marriage.
Even after marriage, there's another issue that comes in; which is commitment. There will be a point when you will meet someone better than your partner, a point when you will meet someone more beautiful and attractive that your partner, someone who resolves argument than your partner, someone who knows how to do things better than your partner. The point when the love you have for your partner is not as how it was in the beginning. Then that's the time you will need to remain committed to the one you have vowed to. The truth is, this point is something that will definitely occur to both sides but what that would keep you in track is the memory of how your love grew from friends to the point that leads to marriage.
All relationships/marriages are not always perfect but staying committed and in communication is just a step to making one.
THAT'S MY VIEW ON LOVE RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE, YOU CAN COMMENT WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT MY VIEW POINT AND ALSO TALK ABOUT YOURS
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