There are days when upon waking up in the morning, you sense that you've not really rested at all, even though you may have slept for a good couple of hours.
Not rested can be interpreted as the body or mind still carrying the weight of yesterday's thoughts and concerns.
In this context, the latter is what I'm precisely referring to because it's the most common for me.
Experientially, it's like hitting on the pause button when you go to sleep and when you wake up, the resume button is pressed.
Your thoughts pick up exactly where they left off, with all the same worries and mental loops intact.
In my view, this experience is not unlike being stuck in a mental traffic jam, which leaves little to no room for fresh perspectives or emotional breathing space.
To create some form of contrast, there are days when an actual reset happens, in that the mind seems to have done important integrative work overnight, processing experiences and emotions in a way that leaves you feeling unburdened and clear.
Obviously, I wish I knew how this difference between mere unconsciousness and true restorative sleep could be deliberately influenced rather than occurring seemingly at random.
What separates those mornings of mental renewal from the ones where sleep merely serves as a brief intermission?
Quantity Vs Quality
Although it may just be an intuitive observation rather than scientific fact, I'm beginning to realize that mental recharge has less to do with the quantity of sleep and more with its quality.
And so far, three practices seem to influence the likelihood of a true mental recharge.
First, intentionally "closing tabs" before sleep through journaling about completed tasks and tomorrow's priorities.
Second, creating a genuine transition period between daytime activities and sleep that doesn't involve screens.
And third, accepting that some days will require conscious effort to reset in the morning through meditation or physical movement.
As always, the second practice is the main aim of every evening routine and can be facilitated through deliberate wind-down rituals like reading, gentle stretching, or mindful breathing. This works well, most of the time, for me.
Alternatively, mental recharge could be pictured as something we necessarily don't achieve through sleep itself, but through how we live while awake.
The pause button can still be pressed each night. However, what really determines whether we wake refreshed could well be what we've recorded on the tape and how it's processed during our waking consciousness.
This shifts some of the focus into cultivating mindfulness throughout our days so that when night falls, our minds aren't overwhelmed with unprocessed material.
Personally, I'll spend more time working on the latter, as in daytime awareness refinement. Because it's more practical to implement with enough room for improvement. When night falls, not much can be done before sleep enters the building, so to speak.
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