The hardest days of my life
Hello friends,
I hope everyone is well. I am also much better in your prayers. Today I will share with you some of the hard days in my life. So all of you stay with me and wear my writing in the end then you will understand how many difficult days I have gone through in my life.
I am a girl from a very ordinary family. Very generally I grew up. My marriage is in a very ordinary family. Immediately after marriage, all the responsibilities of the world fell on me. If the mother-in-law was not at home, then you can understand how much responsibility falls on her if the mother-in-law is not at home. Anyway, I started to make a family like this. My husband told me to go abroad because I was not going anywhere. After a year and a half of marriage, my husband moved abroad when I was two months pregnant. When I went abroad, he left me relying on his mother and aunt. Usually the wives of those whose husbands go abroad go home, but neither my father's house nor my father-in-law's house is in my fortune.
He did not keep me at home because his mother-in-law did not stay at home and if he kept me at his father's house, he would not keep me there either. Anyway as soon as my husband left my mother took me a week after my aunt mother-in-law brought me to her house. In fact, my aunt's mother-in-law went to fetch me at the behest of my mother-in-law and my husband. However, I came to my aunt's house to talk to my husband and my mother-in-law. In fact, when a girl is pregnant, she needs to be by her husband's side the most. But my luck is bad I don’t get my husband next to me. Thus I started living in my aunt's house and had to do all the household chores there. Only her husband understands what a girl feels during pregnancy and whether it is good to play or not. But no one was there to understand me. However, the day was passing with difficulty. At that time when I was seven months pregnant, my mother could not bear it and took me away. Then I gave birth to my daughter. In fact, when a baby is born, the girl needs her husband's help or love the most. No matter how hard it is, if the husband is by her side, it doesn't feel like any trouble. In fact, it is bad for me and my daughter. I didn’t get my husband by my side in my hard times and I didn’t get to see his father again after my daughter was born. Then I went to my father's house in the hospital. Had a very good day there but what a very good day without a husband.
My mother-in-law came home when my daughter was five months old but she would not come home so my aunt-in-law came home and brought me there. A few days later, my mother-in-law left again and left my aunt at her mother-in-law's house. So the day of my trouble begins again. When my daughter starts eating, the children have to give them extra food from 6 months. In fact, if a child's father is not at home and he has to depend on others, then nothing is tied to his forehead. So in fact my problem here is that those whose husbands go abroad but pay separate expenses to their wives see them separately. But my husband obeyed his mother and aunt. At that time I was not paid any money or any other expenses. At that time it was very difficult that my fortune was bad. If I needed something, I would not get it if I told my husband, otherwise I would have to bring it from my father's house, otherwise I would have told my mother-in-law, but my mother-in-law would not have stayed at home. I wouldn't say aunty would bring mother-in-law but she would bring one taka and she would say I brought 5 taka by calling mother-in-law. The mother-in-law believed that her friend would not lie to her. If I had said that, they would not have believed me. I had to take care of everything at home, poultry, cows, goats. So it was very difficult for me to have a small child to take care of all the household chores, to raise cows, goats, ducks and chickens. Only those who have done this will understand how much trouble a girl has. Still, Aunt Shasuri could not make up her mind. At the end of the day I had to hear what you do. So I continued to suffer like this. So not a word was said but my husband did not come home. He is still abroad.
Finally my hard days are over. One day my patience broke and I opened my mouth. I told my husband and my mother-in-law that either I would stay at my father-in-law's house or I would go to my father's house. Eventually my husband and my mother-in-law agreed and I came home and stayed. Now my husband pays me differently. I'm much better now. My daughter is now five and a half years old but my husband has not come home. So now I'm much better. Now I am my daughter and my father-in-law we live in this house of three. My mother-in-law occasionally came home and left again. Basically I'm much better now.
So friends, I hope you have read my article. I am saying goodbye here like today. Thank you all very much.
God bless you.