Hello everyone and welcome to my blog. It is a depressing experience to see that a partner that use to care about you and your well-being as a whole at the beginning of your relationship or marriage has ceased to express those emotions towards you. What is the common cause of this and why is it always occuring in relationships? These and more questions will be answered in this post. So, sit back, relax and enjoy all that I have packaged for your reading pleasure.
In the beginning of every relationship, it is a common phenomenon that men will use all their resources to go after a woman they are interested in - even when the woman seems not to be showing green lights, he will spend his last cash to give her nice treats and beautiful gifts just to get her attention. But, once the men have got the attention of the woman, they seem to not care so much especially when there are disagreements or misunderstanding.
The rate of breakup, separation and divorce in marriages are quite alarming in our world today. Young marriages of few months or years end without a chance of reconciliation. There was a joke someone made some times ago that the souvenir that is shared during some wedding ceremony last longer than some marriages nowadays. Perhaps, it's lack of patience or intolerance, most marriages these days prefer to opt for ending their union instead of working together to make it work.
Often times, the signs that the end of some unions are close is obvious but either of the couple paid little or no attention to them. The issues that build up over time between two partners in a relationship are left for too long unattended to. The issue may be that a partner feel like he or she is not getting much attention from the other partner. A partner that is emotionally, physically, financially or sexually starved will eventually start nursing bad intentions towards the partner or relationship if the issue is not duly addressed.
Whereas, at the start of most healthy relationship all these amd more are in place but the moment the partners begin to be comfortable they start losing tracks of their responsibilities either intentionally or unintentionally. No one wants to feel like they are being taken for granted. The moment a partner feels like he or she is taken for granted it leads to the beginning of crisis that may result to the end of the relationship.
The best way for a relationship to thrive is for both parties to communicate their differences in words to each other before it starts to get out of hand. Communication is key to the growth of every healthy relationship. We humans do not possess the ability to read the mind of others - we only know what we are told. There would be less cases of couple ending their marriages if they could use one-third of the effort they used during the early stage of the relationship when the love is still flowing like river in their veins. After some months of marriage, you'd hear couple making excuses of being too busy to have time for the needs of their partner; but when they were getting to know each other, they can wake up in the middle of the night to run errands for this person.
In other words, in a bid to sustain your relationship or marriage you must ensure that you are always available to cater for the emotional, physical, financial, sexual and other needs of your partner. It is not a one-way traffic, that is, both parties must ensure they work hand-in-hand to make their union work.
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