If you don't have a fav. person, tell us why is that? would you want to have a fav. person? why?
Having a favorite person is something everyone wants to have. At least, you have a gossip partner hahaha. It's really sweet when you have someone whom understands you and shares everything with you. But you feel betrayed or bittered when your favorite person messed up the relationship. That was the reason why i don't make friends currently and doesn't have anyone called favorite person see right now. Here is my story.
Growing up as a child, my late mother instructed us to make friends outside ourselves. So, i grow up only playing with my siblings. But guess what? Sometimes mom is not always around. So, other children do visit us and we play together with them. But each time Mom finds out that we snickout to play which i normally do, she will punish me. Believe me i was a stubborn child then. Hahaha. So, when i finally comes of age, i find it difficult to make friends with people. When i entered Secondary school, i started making friends with my classmates. And from that time upwards, i started keeping friends. Though i make friends, but it ends there in school because mom won't allow me visit anyone in there homes or welcome anyone in her house either. During this process i enjoyed the accompany of my friends because i had a favorite person then. I shared everything with her and we didn't quarrel for one's.
As we continue to grow up, life itself begins to change our mode, thinking and traveling experience. I never knew that your favorite person can betray you due to my first experience with my classmate who happened to be my favorite person. When i leave school to stay with my Auntie in the city, i met a young lady by name Iruoma. Both of became good friends because we both where learning a particular skills in the same shop. I was there before she came and coincidentally, she was from the same local government with me. With that, our friendship grew dipper to the point we started behaving like sisters and people doubted of we where from the same womb.
Iruoma and i shared everything together including secrets. She actually became my partner both in good and crime hahaha 🤣😂. One day, my boyfriend then in school Known as Fabian was very nice to me and both my friend. I never knew that Iruoma was jealous of me because Fabian was not after my body but he supports me in everything. Because of jealousy, Iruoma told Fabian lost of bad things against me including my pasts. Fabian belived her because she was my favorite person. When i cut off my relationship with Fabian, Iruoma became his girlfriend. I was bittered and betrayed by my favorite person Iruoma and that made me to see everyone as betrayers.
As times passes by, i let go of tha secondary school accidents. I make friends with people but i don't take them special or a favorite person. Because i noticed that tomorrow when theirs little misunderstanding, they will use it against you. So, i learned not to share my secrets with anyone. But, I later met a friend whom proved to be different. I saw her as reasonable woman because she's matured in age. I was very disappointed when I noticed she had basket mouth 👄 hahaha. All that i disclosed with her has been shared among all her friends including what i did not think of. Instead of having problems with her, i out a stop to the relationship and since over a year now, i dont have any favorite person. I only communicate deeply with God and my phone.
Am not sure of having favorite person anytime soon because am afraid of humans. Yes i am. Because humans has proven to me the most dangerous being. I rather play with kids, keep myself busy with my phone, watch some comic videos online than to have a favorite person. To me, NO favorite person. I will communicate with humans, play and laugh with everyone. But believe me, i wont make anyoney favorite person.
Am inviting @maraja @calebmavel @mayorboo to join this contest.