Ambitious ladies carry their dreams in the king win if life but the scenario for some shuffles. Glancing the society, of my inhabitance I found many ladies who fortify all their dreams as they were unable to accomplish the responsibilities.
- Justification;
After marriage: ladies face pressure for showcasing the perfect side of their housewives. They have the responsibility to perform all the chores and after sweating day in the kitchen she has less time to think about who she was and what was her previous version. In South Asia, the working lady is not a common trend unless the one is compelled to perform it. Ambitious ladies are still here who haven't bow before society and cherished their dreams.
Achieved the dreem but;
I knew a girl named Pakeeza she joined the Pakistan airforce before her marriage but her family supporter her a lot. Now as the marriage time appeared each guy demanded for the lady who can give full time to family. It was the luck of Pakeeza that her husband supported her a lot but the problem she encountered was the less time for family and kids. Each aspect can be compensated except compassion and love. At an instance, she felt that interest in flying the fighter plane was lost so she decided on for purpose to spend time with family.
I do favor these passionate girls but what if they don't decide about their future; jobs are not easy to be accessed. In the case of military or medical; the whole time, money, and effort are being invested in a single person and when they decide to left the job in the midpoint. Don't you think such a lady will take the seat of another deserving person? I strongly oppose this point. If you have decided to perform something, be patient, consistent, and courageous to encounter all the hardships which will oppose you.
- The second image;
I have showcased the diligent ladies but some are still there who murder their dreams with their own hands. Without making effort or struggle they just surrender themselves. They are well aware of the outcomes of raising their voice so in the fear of opposition they don't struggle.
Conclusion;
*In both cases, you will see the dreams are being murdered so who is responsible for this? Our society, norms traditions, or, we? Why ladies have to confront the barrier after the marriage? Are the marriage papers contract that women will be bounded in the barriers of responsibilities?
