Malice can as well be known as grudge or bitterness resulting from past events. Human race can not co-exist without stepping on each other’s toes, no matter how tight the friendship or relationship might be. When events like this comes up, it either ends up in an open minded conversation whereby matters are settled or grudge resulting to malice.
In the case of lovers in a relationship, most times when malice are being kept, it lasts for days, throughout these days of malice in place, both parties ends up unhappy.
A man’s mind never deceives him, he might decide not to talk to his spouse for days, but would never stop thinking about it even for an hour especially while keeping malice. This leaves him with an heavy heart, and explains why he would be unhappy throughout the malicious moments, this happens to both parties. The heart wants to connect as usual but they keep fighting it until one of them decides to drop his or her pride, talk out matters and get back to the normal life they were living.
The number of days they kept malice adds no value when matters are eventually sorted out. They could have iron things out the first day and bypassed the unhappy moments.
This is where the question Why keep malice? pops out. Malice has never been the solution to any problem or conflict. During the world wars and other similar wars fought in the past, a lot of people lost their lives in violence which changes nothing nor adds value to the moment of reconciliation. The similarity between most of those wars were, they all ended on a round table with prominent leaders of both sides in agreement.
In the part of the world i grew up in, when Election Day approaches, we find political thugs killing themselves over politicians that are being seated in the comfort of their homes, the funniest part is that most times, the politicians who thugs killed themselves for ends up being political friends and allies over some conversations and agreements. Another funny part is that, the candidates who gets to attain the new position is never determined by who’s thug got to win the fights. So what exactly is the reason for malicious acts ?
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Writing up this entry reminded me of a true life based gangster movie I washed titled BLUE STORY
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Best friends Timmy and Marco go to the same high school in Peckham but live in neighboring London boroughs. When Marco gets beaten up by one of Timmy's primary school friends, the two boys wind up on rival sides of a never-ending cycle of gang wars in which there are no winners, only hapless victims.
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*In conclusion, noting good nor productive comes out of keeping malice, the only way to solve all kinds of conflict including domestic conflict is by talking matters out and arriving at a point of harmony.
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