In a relationship with someone one the greatest thing we have learnt is the ability not to hide your expression but to be opened to who you are,
NOT TO HIDE YOUR EXPRESSION BUT TO BE OPEN TO WHO YOU ARE
THERE ARE MANY DEFINITION TO THE TERM
"YOU"
YOU: MEANING your person, your character and ability strength
YOU: your principles what you stand for, your fears and assests
YOU: Your passion your like your obsession
YOU: YOUR DEEPEST SECRETS
In all these above the relationship we keep transcends beyond make and female but also our relationship with self and with friends, in the work place and with our career, we must know that in all these above ground.
NO ONE OF THESE RELATIONSHIPS LOVES TO BE KEPT IN THE DARK.
a business man will never hide his business or there will be no patronage.
A man hiding his wife from the view of the public is cheating.
A person hiding his identity is either in a shell or pretending to be.....
So no one relationship loves to be kept secrets WHY WHY
BECAUSE RELATIONSHIP DEFINES WHO WE ARE? OR WHAT WE HAVE BECOME
Like this picture above when looking at it with details what do you see, to me I see a clear definition of who they are and they are not ashamed of how long they have been together,
IF YOU CAN'T SAY THAT ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP EITHER SPOUSE, WORK , BUSINESS, OF SELF RELATED ! THEN YOU NEED TO TELL YOURSELF THE TRUTH BY ASKING AM I IN THE RIGHT PLACE??????