Is there anyone who doesn't trust you?
I'm sure it's not easy to convince someone we've lied to so that that person can trust us anymore. Likewise, in a business, it is not easy to get them to trust you again if you have lied to them. But what will you do when many people don't trust you anymore. If I'm in that problem, I'll try to find a way to get them to trust me again.
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As the saying goes in my country. "Trust is like a mirror, if that trust has been broken, it is like the mirror has cracked. No matter how good the mirror is connected, there must be cracks." Likewise with trust, of course we as humans are not free from mistakes and most importantly we know what to do when we make mistakes. So when I make a mistake I will do some things like below.
I will apologize. After I admit my mistake, then I will apologize. BTW, am I a coward? Nah! I am not a coward, so when I do something wrong I will admit my mistake, and then I will apologize. Can you do like that? If you can't do that, you're a coward. Lol
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But if someone accuses me of doing something wrong, I will never want to admit my fault and will never apologize. Examples like my problem on hive, I made an apology post for the POB community not because I know what my mistake, I don't know what my mistake in the hive at this time. It's just that I love the POB platform and appreciate the POB community.
Then I will try to restore their trust in me, not with words. If I don't have faith and trust in him, then he doesn't have faith and trust in me, then it's very difficult. For example, I was forced to be fired, or forced to break up because we couldn't find agreement and compatibility. So I will try to dare to tell the problem of the action, I will show that I am really committed to being even better. Because business is about trust, if trust is broken then business will also be destroyed.
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After it, I tried to prove it by committing to make me better and by showing me the steps that I did. Then show my good results to be maintained in the project for example, if the results are good I will be trusted again even though I have made mistakes. Likewise, if I make a mistake on my wife, then I will try to make myself better. And you need to remember that there no is a third chance. So if you're given a third chance, then the project manager is a fool for hiring someone that can't trust. Lol