This message is for those who has lost their parents and living an independent life. When Almighty creator of us given enough knowledge and intelligence then why we need others to decide something important of our life? Specially when you are not a burden to others. You are capable enough to take decision of your life.
So called well wishers often poke us about things we don't have in life. Such as a girl is getting married late or don't want to get married for her own wishes. Those so called well wishers will poke you to marry. They force you like they wants to cut your wings. They almost insist and try to take decision of your life. You are not helpless but they will make you feel like helpless and you badly need a partner in life.
Sometimes those so called well wishers will start judging your life that you had taken wrong decision or you have wrong choice. Please answer them with confidence that you have no regret of your choice or the life you have chosen to live. When we answer them straight they got disappointed, let them be.
Life is yours so here choice should be yours. Never allow anyone to take decision of your life on your behalf. Suppose, you allow some others to take decision of your life and you can't be happy in life, the whole life you'll spend in a regret that why you listen to others and took that step. According to my opinion having wrong decision is better than having decision of others specially when this is the matter of my own life.
If anything bad or negative happen for other's decision in your life, no one will take responsibility of your spoiled life but when you decide wrong and anything wrong happen by chance at least you can console yourself that the decision was yours.
A wrong decision or choice is better than having lifetime regret of having other's decision. I prefer to be poor instead become rich by applying others choice. And I think every independent individual who has self respect will think this way or agree with my opinion.
I saw divorced women in parent's house. They treated like a helpless. Divorced woman are burden to many societies. Girls get married according to the choice of parents and this is their misfortune that they got divorce. This would be a rare case but I'm the witness of such divorce incidents. Where parents hardly take responsibility of their wrong decision for their daughter there how other person can take responsibility?
Some so called own people will show off their concern but they are actually having fun when poking you for your lacking in life. This is the nature of few people and when they will be unmasked, you'll surprised that whom you trusted to take decision of your life.
So please don't allow such people. Your life, your choice, your happiness or your regret, everything should be yours. Don't allow third person to take decision of your life.
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