Have you ever clung to someone something a place or a moment? And if so what were the reasons that led you to that?
Yes i have clung to someone before. It was a closed friendship that meant a lot to me. That persons was always there for me and we shared everythinig our happy moments our sadness our dreams and evens our silly jokes. We were like sisters. I clung to this friendship because it gave me comfort support and a feeling that i was not alone. But slowly things changed. The person became distant and i kept holding on even though i knew it was not the same anymore. I feared being alone and losing someone so close. That was the reasons i held on for so longs.
What did you rely on or what motivated you to let go of what you were clinging to?
Lettings go was not easy. But i started to noticed that the more i held on the more pain i felts. I would crying at night and wonder why the friendship didn’t feel like before. One day i talked to my mother. She listened to me and said something that helped me so much. She said "If holding something hurts you maybe it’s time to leave it. Some people are not meant to stay forever." Her words gave me strength. I also begans writing in my diary. Writing helped me understands my own feelings. Slowly i realized that i needed peace more than holding on to someones who no longer cared the sames way. That motivated me to finally lets go.
