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Some incidents keep happening in the life of all of us, sometimes it happens that some good incidents happen in our life and sometimes some bad incidents happen in our life. Often you must have noticed here that when something good happens, people do not pay much attention to you, but when something bad happens, people immediately start judging you and if you are responsible for that wrong incident. So many times it happens that people humiliate you. If seen, mistakes keep getting bigger and smaller than everyone else, and if you are doing teamwork, then everyone contributes to it, so many times mistakes are made by one team member and the whole work gets spoiled and then after that the whole team gets blamed and many times it also happens that someone else does the mistake but it all comes down to us and especially this happens when either the person who has done the wrong thing cleverly puts the blame on you or the person who is checking that work takes you wrong on the basis of his thinking.
I would like to share my experience a similar experience with you that happened to me in which the name came upon me despite someone else's mistake, so this thing happened when I was new to a company and at that time but we were learning the work, but the people who were given the responsibility of teaching the work, were not teaching us properly, due to which we were getting a lot of confusion while learning the work and the other problem was that the people there did not give us direct work due to which we were being insulted a lot when any mistake came, so now it happened that one day we were working on a project and both me and my co-workers were working on the project since morning. We were working and finished the project in the last and then that friend of mine had to do shopping, then he went to the mall and went there for shopping, then after that when our team leader started checking that project, there were some mistakes in it that was done by my co-worker was not present in the office at that time, then the team leader there told me that now you rectify it and when he comes, then he will continue it there, so I did the same. I started correcting the work, after that he got angry, started insulting me and many other things, he was really wrong with me because I was correcting his mistakes, so why did he need to say all this to me, then after that he left Went.
Although at that time I was feeling very bad and angry because first thing it was not such a big mistake that he insulted us so much and secondly without thinking anything, he started scolding us, so once So here I was thinking to read it and answer it and leave the job but then I felt here that if I leave the job then I will not have any other job option and will have to face a lot of difficulties in finding a job. So then I did not say anything and I ignored his words. Then after that someone must have called that worker of mine and told him about that incident, then immediately left the shopping there and came to the office and started talking to me that you got scolded because of me, then I told him explained that there is no fault of yours in this, it was the fault of that major, because it does not come under any rule to scold someone without thinking and in this way to humiliate the junior workers.
Now, although I was very stressed about this, but I could not do anything because I had no other option of job, you have learned me here from this thing that if we are not able to succeed in life, then we One has to work with such people who are arrogant and who do not know how to respect drug juniors and such an environment is seen in many corporate companies these days and I am totally against it, but no one does anything in this can do because those people do not have any other option than to work there and those who have the option leave already, so in such a situation people do the job after doing everything right and keep suffocating inside. If I can control management, then I will send this type of uneducated arrogant arrogant manager to the jail, who neither knows how to respect of his junior and those who insult the younger ones because I think that it is everyone's right to get respect if If a person can expect for himself, then he should also respect others, it does not make any logic that in the arrogance of your big thumb, you can make others respect you, but do not respect anyone yourself.
This type of behavior is not liked by any human being and this type of behavior shows that how much the thinking of the person is down there, how bad are the rituals of his house and how low is the level of his education, because no matter how much you Take degrees, do any amount of education, but if you do not know the basic things of your life, then all the studies there are of no use, if you do not have the manners to talk to anyone, then neither your post is of any use and nor is your education of any use. There are lot of difficulties in working with such people because this type of person can make your life toxic and if such a person is on a big position and you are on small question then you can imagine how much trouble you have to face. I understand that even if a person commits mistakes by mistake, then he should be ignored because if we give such crude action on him, then the mental state of that person will be affected and at the same time both of you will be affected. The relations between are also bad because then the person there is not loyal to you and the biggest thing is that the person has to correct the mistakes too. That's why I think that love should be distributed among people as much as possible and should be lived with love.
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