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We do not know how many people we keep meeting in our life. In our life we meet many kinds of people . Many qualities is seen in every human being, no matter how the person is, there will be some good qualities and some bad qualities as well. I too have met so many people in my life from childhood till today and many people stayed with me for a long time and many people kept getting separated, so the same process of meeting and getting separated continues in life.
If we talk about stingy and greedy people, then I have met with many such people in my life and many people are still in my circle who are stingy and greedy as well. Although I have seen many people who are stingy as well as greedy.
Now I want to share my experience with one such person with you, I will not consider it right to mention name that person here because no one's name will be revealed without asking. Doing it will also become a bad social behaviour and guidelines are also violated, then I will tell you the next part without taking the name of that person. I met that person for the first time while playing cricket, there used to be a cricket field at some distance from my house where we used to play with many friends, then at that time that person's new house was made and those people came from some other city and they came here to settle, he used to live nearby the field, so seeing us there too, he also used to come and play with us.
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There are many stories of his miserliness, first of all I will tell you that when we used to play there in the field, our bat which used to be a bit broken and we somehow made it playable but there after sometime it did not work properly then we had a lot of trouble in playing but that person used to have a new bat which seemed to be of very good quality but that person did not bring that bat to play and we came to know about that bat when we were coming home from school one day and we found that guy is playing with bat in his terrace and we used to see him playing with bat many times but still he didn't bring his bat while playing with us .One day when we asked, he used to make an excuse here that my family members forbid me to carry the bat.While his parents were in a good job and earned well, but still why was he so stingy.When we got to know those people better, their parents are also very stingy, then we came to know that he has this stinginess because of his parents as when parents tolf the child to do something, then how can he avoid it, so he must have done all this on the advice of his parents.
Now let me tell you anectode about his greediness. The whole family was so greedy that whenever there was a marriage or any function or birthday party in our neighborhood, the whole family used to join there and they used to eat light food from morning itself so that in the evening at the time of party they would eat tasty food and eat more food, this anectode was famous in the whole neighborhood. Also, that person was so greedy that many times he used to sneak into any marriage without any invitation there and used to come back after eating a lot of food.
He doesn't like to eat food in hotel or restaurant out of his own money where he only used to eat a lot of food when he got free food . Those people were so stingy that whenever there was a function or birthday party in their own house, they used to invite but they prepare very less and tastless food so that people will eat less and go away after giving them gifts and he used to give invitations to those people also in the greediness of gift.
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After that, when peoples slowly started realizing that they are so stingy and greedy, then people did not care much about them. Many people stopped giving him invitations and many people even stopped going to there invitation. Many times this thing surprise me thinking that how can someone be so stingy and greedy because financially there income was very good and his living was also good, but their miserliness habbit was a bit clumsy, which probably no one likes. I also think that if someone is offering me something, then it is my duty to offer something to him next time.
And as far as my experience with that person is concerned, in the beginning, wherever I used to go with him, like sometimes we used to go play video games or we used to go to some cafe, then at that time I used to pay the bill. Everytime i had to do it because there he used to make some excuse or the other and did not let the issue of the bill come upon him. Many times it used to happen that we used to meet in a marriage, so I used to take only that much food in my plate as much as I was hungry, but used to come with us many times with a full plate there, so we used to feel a bit ashamed because he used to bring so much food that I don't know if he would be hungry for many days, we used to move away from him.
Often this happens with people who are greedy and stingy, they cannot make this friendship with anyone for a long time because one day the person who is tolerating all this realizes that he is just taking advantage of her and saving his money, in such a situation no one can accept that relationship and he has to ignore that person one day .
Yes it's ok if someone don't have much money then they can skimp but on one hand they are saving their own money but on the other hand they are spending someone else's money that too in such a huge amount so this thing we will say wrong. If you keep doing this for a long time, then even the society does not accept you and starts despising you there.
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