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Often we see that there are many such occasions in our life in which we interact with new people, these are the people whom we do not know but have to interact. Often when we meet new people, the first impression that comes is through their looks and 90% of us are the ones who judge humans only by looking at the looks but it is not always true. Because we cannot identify a person by his looks, if we really want to know how that person is, what is his nature, then for that we have to spend some time with him, only then we can know a little bit about the person. On the contrary, many times it happens that some people wrongly judge a person by his looks, but that person is something else. So here the process of judging goes on in our life, many times it happens that when we go shopping in the market, before buying goods from a new shop, some people see that shopkeeper, how his look is, after that many People buy goods, they do so because if they feel through the looks that the shopkeeper is of good nature or pleasant, then it is possible that he can negotiate something in the goods and they will get some benefit. If someone feels that the shopkeeper is angry, then in most cases they do not like to take the goods because they feel that we will not be able to speak much with it and you may even scold us with anger in front of many peoples.
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The issue of checking by looks is also seen in school. Children often like teachers who are good looking and less like teachers who are a bit angry in writing. Children don't have much time for think those things. If it were there, children often have less interaction with such a teacher who seems to be a little angry, why don't they think that this teacher can even scold us and the only thing children fear in school is that Don't get bitten or hit but gradually when the infection of children and teacher increases, then children start liking those teachers more who have good nature and who treat children with love. Gradually, this mentality inculcates in the children too that one should not judge someone by looks but by their nature. However, no matter how much we try, but in today's time, most of the people will find such people who will check you according to your looks, I have seen many people who are so judgmental that a little bad look person can be seen by those people they don't even like to talk with those people's, they are very bad minded people and such people create discrimination in the society.
Let me share you an experience of my life where I won a person through looks but you proved wrong then it is a matter of class ninth at that time newly promoted students were promoted in our class by the government. Harsh was a student who had come here from another city to study because his father was recently transferred. Harsh was a little angry in writing and it seemed that he remained angry And the tone of his speaking was also a bit root so in the beginning one would feel that he is speaking angrily and it seemed like he was scolding you. In our school students used to sit in pair of 4 ,so we three old friends were sitting together and sir made Harsh sit with us .Now as I told you about Harsh above and it was time that all children believed this Harsh is angry, so he used to interact less with people, now he has started sitting with us, so at least we will communicate with him a little.
It had been many days like this and while sitting with Harsh, one day it happened that a new boy had got admission in our class but his admission was very late due to which a lot of his work was pending and he had to Work had to be done outside, so the class teachers announced here in the whole class that any child from the whole class who wants to help this new boy to complete the pending work can do so because that child has the ability to complete the pending work. There was only time till the end of summer vacation, sorry he should not have helped the girl but one day before the summer vacation was about to start, Harsh told the boy that you should let me do half of your work. Give it to him for that he requested that boy to give copies of those subjects then that new boy was very happy that someone has come forward to help him and he gave 3 subject copies to Harsh or seeing me also very good Felt and I should also help him, then slowly two students came forward to help that new boy and that boy was very happy because I could see that he was sitting with the pressure of his pending work but when some students tried to help him When he came forward to help, happiness was clearly visible in his face but the credit for all this goes to Harsh because he started helping the student and in the rest of that day I realized that a person can be judged by his looks. It should not be done, Harsh was angry in appearance and very rude in speaking, but I found him very helpful in whatever possible way and a person who helps an unknown person is really of good manners and from that day I felt Got a new lesson in life and changed my thinking.
Now I share with you another experience of my life where I judged a person by his looks and it turned out to be right so it was few years back when I used to do job in another city from my home. And my family used to be less because there we used to get a little less holiday in the job, so in such a situation family used to happen only two to three times in a year, so this thing is of summer time, I had come home after taking leave from the job and I stayed at home for a few days then again I left home to go back to work first month I changed a bus then waited for another bus and I sat in that bus I had to sit between two people because the bus was quite It was full and no seat was vacant so I had to do this now as it was summer season so I was having a lot of speculation I saw the person next to me who was a little older than me and decent in appearance It seemed that I first judged here whether it would really give me a window seat because everyone feels the heat. Some time ago that person had talked on his phone, then that person was talking very comfortably and lovingly on the phone, so I again requested that person to ask for a window seat and that person gave me a window seat. The seat will be given and when I told him that I am getting suffocation, he also gave me a water bottle, but I had a water bottle, so I thanked the person and returned his water bottle to him and it felt very good at that time and i judged him right.
I shared both the experiences with you and from both the experiences, I made the first system from here that we should not judge any person by his looks, by his clothes, by his speaking, but what is important is the nature of that person. How useful he is to others and how much he can understand the pain and sorrow of others. A person may speak angrily or get angry, but if the same person is useful in your bad times and is helping you, then really we cannot call that person wrong.
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