There are lots of things I don't do often not because I didn't want to do them but because I was too busy with how to provide for my family, I got carried away and forgot that I have to spend some time with my family as well.
As a man sometimes we are supposed to go out with our family and have some quality time with them but the responsibilities weighing on our shoulders wouldn't allow us to do all that.
Buying something for my family gives me joy, so why wouldn't I do it? So yesterday me and my family attended a birthday party in the afternoon. It has been a while since my family and I attended a birthday party.
My daughter seemed not to be ready to go home after the party, so I decided to take advantage of that and do something I hadn't done in a while.
I told my wife we should visit a recreation center and have some fun. Which makes her happy. Firstly we visited a nearby eatery and had yummy food.
I'm glad that my daughter loves the food because sometimes I do feel like she doesn't like something but the way she played proves to me that she loves the outing.
I enjoyed watching her and her mother eating. It has been a while since I watched them eating outside and that moment brought some beautiful memories we shared before we gave birth, how we had fun together and visited a lot of places with each other. Looking at my daughter reminds me of the day her mother told me that I would be a father soon
I couldn't control my happiness that day because nothing can be compared to the feeling of having a child, and the day she was born I felt like I had a mission in life. Thinking of all that makes me want to do more for them so I told my wife that my daughter needs to play more before we go home.
After we finished eating, there was a playground near the eatery so we just went there. Someone once told me that parents feel high when they see their children playing, but then I was still single.
I don't know how it feels to have a child, but yesterday I couldn't stop laughing watching my daughter playing with her peers in the playground. Then I realized that my family is the reason why I can never give up.
I do take them out but not often because of the nature of my work, and the most important reason why I took them out yesterday was that I could see through my daughter how much she wants to spend some quality time with me, but then a man must provide for his family, that is why men hustle day and night.
So I took the opportunity to see how much they needed me at home then we enjoyed ourselves to the fullest.
I wouldn't mind doing that over and over again but then my work wouldn't allow me but every little chance I get I want to spend it with my family.