Humans are born in such a way that if we don't get closer to God, we can't be any better. At first when Adam was created there was nothing like bad in a man. We can see this in the Bible. Genesis helps us understand how all of these happened. Man was okay, but when man started doing what God demanded that should not be done, evil had the opportunity to enter into man and begin to control man to do only evil and make his creator angry with him all the time.
From what I have seen in the Bible, man was not initially born to be bad. But things started happening and man learnt what is evil and since from them we had what we call - The adamic nature. This is known as the nature we inherited from Adam who was the first man of earth. Immediately he sinned together with his wife, he started carrying a different nature that is different from the first nature he had. The first nature is that of God and that made it almost impossible for man to do evil or do anything bad against another person.
HUMAN TRAIT
This is that part of a man that differentiate man from God. This is what makes is human. Some traits are good and some are very bad. And when we call it trait it means is something that is in man that man did not request for. Most people with bad trait don't even feel happy about it, yet they accept it like that.
PEOPLE COMING FROM DIFFERENT HOMES
No one can decide which home to come from. Just like it has been stated that sometimes we see good people coming from a bad home and sometimes also bad people come from good home. If we all have a choice about where to be born, or who to give birth to us. I can never be in Nigeria right now. What do we say about a country like ours that almost everyone is corrupt? I believe that life is all about decision. Yes, one can be born by a father who is a drunk, when he grows up and discovered that this is not what he or she wants, the person can change and God will still give him a chance at life. No one will be condemned simply because he or she come from a bad home. But I believe that we will all be condemned because of the choices we make with the opportunities that we have.
IS THERE A BLUEPRINT FOR HOW NOT TO HAVE BAD CHILD?
As a mother and from all the experiences that I have gathered in this life. I know that all that you need to do in order to have a good child is for you to be good yourself. You may have a good background for the child, but children learn faster from our actions and the quickly become what they have seen us. We can be bad and expect our children to be good. I know sometime things like this do happen, that the exact opposite of what I am saying will happen. But we need to really play our own part by showing them a good example.
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