Fighting sheep is something that is strictly prohibited in Islam because it spreads the seeds of conflict. This fighting between sheep in a broader meaning is not only limited to pitting animals against each other but is an expression that means telling someone's badness to others, inciting each other, thus causing enmity.
Usually, people who have the nature of this fighting man love to find out about people's personal affairs. Whether good or bad, this person's personal affairs are often the subject of gossip to be disseminated to many people.
His name is also a man who fights sheep, surely seeing people fighting and in trouble has become his own entertainment. Don't want to be instigated by a matchmaker. Seeing other people happy has become a disaster in itself for the matchmaker. Feelings of envy and envy had enveloped his heart. Therefore, he sometimes underestimates the happiness of other people by spreading gossip that is not in the crowd.
The most visible trait in the fighting man is selfish. He felt that no one else could be happy but himself. For him, the misery of others is able to show that he is much better than the people around him. Be careful if one of your friends has this despicable trait. Never tell him your personal problems because what you tell him could be the subject of conversation.
There are several ways to anticipate people who are playing against each other:
1. Be more careful in speaking
Friends who like to play against each other will usually report anything you talk to your friends about. So, don't talk about other people's ugliness with him. Be more careful in speaking. Find another topic for you to talk about.
2. Don't get emotional easily
Even if you know your friends are talking behind your back, don't get emotional. Indeed it feels heavy, but try to be more patient. You know that your friends are talking about you through your friends. But you have to think positive first. Maybe your friend heard wrong.
3. Don't make trouble with them
If you start a problem with them, it will be to your detriment. So, you better talk to him as needed. If you talk to him too often and one day there is a problem with him, he will be even more eager to talk bad about you behind your back.
4. Ask why they are like that
You have to be brave enough to ask them why they are talking about you behind your back. Ask why and ask if you had a problem with them that made them like that. But before you ask directly to them, make sure the evidence that he ever talked about you.
5. Don't open his social media
Don't ever open social media. He uploads a photo with a satirical caption that will make you sicker. So, you better stay away from social media accounts like Instagram, Facebook, and others.
6. Finally, take the best decision
For the latter, you have to make a decision. You have to continue to be friends or not. If you think the evidence that he's talking behind your back isn't clear, it's best if you continue your friendship. But if the evidence is very strong, you better end your friendship because it will make you sick.
Those are some ways to anticipate for people who want to play against each other. So be careful.
| Contact | Discord |
|---|