"Family is not defined by our genes, it is built and maintained through love.”
~ Amalia G., Independent Adoption Center. Shared on Aug. 2, 2013.
Hello Hive Learners Community! Welcome to my blog. Parents are known as one of the biggest blessings from God as well as the best Guardians for kids on this planet. Whatever the condition will be! Their love and affection for kids don't have boundaries. Parents are parents; it doesn't matter whether their kids are adopted, or their kids are their biological offspring. Many people are unable to give birth to a single kid but they have adopted kids to fulfill their parenting desires.
I'm the Elder son in my family. I'm happy and blessed to be the biological kid of my parents. My parents don't have any adopted kids. But they are affectionate enough to adopt one kid from the Orphan House near my home.
Adopting Kid Is Not An Amulet
It is tough to be an adopted kid in a joint family. There always comes a time when anyone in the family makes Criticism about us. I got this lesson from my adopted cousin. She was the only girl born in her family. Her parents passed away in a road accident and my uncle adopted her when her age was just 6 months. Although my aunt and my uncle both are doing their best to grant every right to her they are parents that reveal all story. They tagged her that she was the bad omen in her family hence her parents died. It will be easy for people to criticize her for these words, but believe me, I have seen when she was broken and tired from life. I always gave her hope and tried my best not to leave her disappointed. Nowadays she is very disturbed to know about her harsh reality. I don't know why her adoption is not an issue for my Uncle's family then why it is an issue for the people.
I'm thankful to God that I'm the biological son of my parents. After observing the situation of my adopted cousin, I think that If I were an adopted son, then life would be too tough for me. I'm the person who can punch a person who criticized me for some nonsense. Criticism is okay for me if it is for my improvement; otherwise, it is an attack on my personality. I can feel that my short temperament is my weakness, but It becomes worse when one unexpected event, like the truth about my adoption, adds to it.
Final Thoughts
In Asia, there are several schools of thought found about the adoption of kids. Some people have good intentions about it and some people have bad intentions. If one Baby is born without parents then it is not its fault. It is the fault of the parents who brought it into this cruel world. Many mothers give birth to their kids in private washrooms, hospitals, and even in dustbins. They leave their kids there. When any stranger finds a baby there, he or she will not let them die. It is good that this stranger not only adopted these kids but also gave them their names. Here, we need to focus on keeping adopted kids in a separate house. We should keep their adoption secret and not reveal it to the people as it affects their personality when people make criticisms of any adopted kids. We need to understand that adopted kids are not bad Amulets, they can be more precious than our real kids. We should provide them with each right as we provide all rights to our kids.
Kids adoption is seriously one debatable topic in society; we need to educate parents about it. If I were an adopted kid, then I would be happy if my parents would keep the secret of my adoption in the family. I would appreciate them for not revealing this secret to people because I'm afraid of people's criticism and behavior for an adopted kid.
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