Hello Hive Learners Community! Welcome to my blog. In this short and temporary life, we meet with several people. Some of these people become the part of our memories either these memories are worst or beautiful regarding them. We can't emphasize them to connect with us forever. It is a human nature when a man finds more interest in anything, he influenced towards it. After getting his interest, he moves forward. I'm not here to blame all those relationships who have left me in the middle of this merciless life but I want to share reasons that were the cause of our separation. There is nothing immortal here so we should be ready for variations in our mortal life.
Moral Toxins in Love
A relationship can be successful if it is based on respect, trust and love. First two morals are building blocks for a good relationship. If any of them is prolapsed then this relationship will change into a unconscious state in which no one can feel the pain of his or her relationship partner. Hence, we should be careful about all those factors that can nullify respect, trust and love in any relationship.
I had been in a Love Relationship for about 10 years. Many times when I'm feeling crying inside after reminding some painful memories regarding last breakup, I tried to expose my frustrations here because there are people here who always rescued my life from suicide with their precious advices and life-saving sympathy. In these 10 year love story, first nine years were the years that I spent in heaven. Yes when your favourite person is breathing with you, your days of life spent in Heavenly environment. Same was happening with me in last 9 years. Then a stray dusty cloud drived into our relationship. I was hopeless and wordless when our tussle started to end my life.
Following moral toxins signed the death summon of my relationship.
- Poor Trust
- Blame Game
- Privacy Breaches
- Abusive Behaviour
Above four toxins were not released by any bacteria but they were released in our relationship. I was really possessive about my partner. Even I can't bear if my partner was spending one minute with a person to whom I don't know. My possession was true for me but toxic for my partner. My fears were right in some directions but I would not blame my partner for leaving me alone. I always had considered myself the Viloon in my relationship. At the end, our tussle resulted into poor trust, blaming to each other, looking into social accounts of each other and exchanging abusive words for each other. Our Peaceful Nights became nightmare for us. We both started sleeping with tears and crying. I was already conscious about the end result of this relationship few months ago before everything in relationship vanished. We decided to separate from each other before this toxicity would be resulted into spiritual attacks. It had been many years since we separated. Still I love her but she is not with me. I don't know about her but still I have big respect for her. I pray that May Allah bless her with peaceful and happy life. I think we were not a perfect match for each other hence nature has separated us. Anyway, my relationship was slaughtered due to above toxins I mentioned.
Conclusion
In all types of relationship, the most delicate nature is found in love. Here a man can taste the hell and heaven in his life. If his partner is co-operative then his life spends in heaven if his partner is opposite to that then believe me his days of life started cycling around hell.
I can't sketch the whole painful situation that I drowned into the stream of fire but I can guess that suicide will be more delicious than spending life like a carcass. Our painful ending is still emotional and my words still have tears, I always like to brief the reasons that killed our relationship to save someone from such deadly ending. We should respect, trust and love to partner. We should have an elastic nature and compromise should be made when there is some misunderstanding instead of breaching privacy and exchanging some words full of garbage.
This post is my entry for HL Weekly Featured Content The Worst Reasons. I hope, you have learned from my today post. Thanks!