Hello Hive Learners Community! Welcome to my blog. There is nothing perfect in our Universe except God. We all do our best to make ourselves perfect but practically it is impossible. Everyone has some merits and demerits. These characteristics make us different from each other. Someone's weakness is a someone's strength. Our weakness should not be a barrier in our success. If someone criticizes us by mentioning our weakness then we should not disseminate in our efforts. Instead we should strengthen our weakness. We can't ignore it until we work on it. There is nothing transparent, everything in nature is in the process of completion. Water is precious when it is purified but it is useless when it has dirt and mud. We need to filter our all impurities and do purification for our all weakness.
Overthinking, My Weakness
As I mentioned that a man is amalgam of many features. A man can't be 100% strong. God has made a balance and has created everyone special. Even an identical twins can be identical in shape but can't identical in their fates and in their features. If I'm weak in one thing, there were many hundreds of people that will be strong in that thing. Yeah, we should do our best not to expose our weakness, we should practice a lot to make our weakness our strength. This is the best thing I'm doing from couple of months. I can't sit thinking, "Oh! That is my weakness and no one will like me for this" if I know my weakness on one day then I shall work on it from the beginning.
I have spent 25 springs of my life. From many weeks, I have found about myself that I'm overthinker. I'm thinking a lot about many things. If someone either praises me or complains me about anything, I lost my many hours in thinking about it. Last Night, my mum told me that your father is going to resign from his company. Like my mother, I also become worried. I spent my whole night in thinking "Why he resigns?". How we meet the Financial Gaps without this salary? How my father will be feeling? There were thousands of questions and I was losing my life in pain going into the depth of this issue. I have not slept whole night. In the morning, when my mother came into my room my whole body was hot with 103.6 °F temperature. I was tens and depressed. She understood my situation and called to my father. Later, he clarified that he is going to resign because he is going to join another better position. When he shared his notification about new job. I started breathing in relief and felt that now I'm becoming calm. This was a recent event of my overthinking. There are many normal things where I found myself in overthinking. I literally need to work on my this weakness otherwise I know that I'm going to lose my health. Overthinking affects us from head to toe and I'm learning how to control on us.
Conclusion
Everyone has number of weak points in his personality. We all learn how to control our weakness with time? Hence first we should list our weakness then we should make strategies to fight with them. I'm glad that I found one of weakness in my personality and I shall rectify it soon. Overthinking is one of the toxic situation in our mind. We should control on it as soon as possible because it can turn us into psychological patient. For this purpose, I'm working hard and learning how to balance my thoughts whenever I'm alone.
This post is my entry for HL Weekly Topic "A Weak Point". I hope, you enjoyed my post. Thanks!