Making decisions should actually be done with a lot of consideration. One has to consider the pros and cones of the decision you want to make, no matter how juicy an opportunity is. Not just for today but also for the future because it could have regrettable repercussions that may be your nightmare forever.
I have made decisions in the past that are still hunting me till date, I have also made decisions that I'm enjoying, that my children may still enjoy in future because I am not perfect. I'm only working towards perfection if there is anything like that.
For the fact that making decisions could be difficult and could have traumatizing repercussions doesn't mean that we shouldn't take some risk in business or career. It's usually tough to decide but with Divine wisdom and guidance we would make right decisions.
Ever since I began to understand life and how spiritual it is, The first thing I do, when it is time to make a decision about my life or my family or my career, is to pray about it. I'm a very spiritual person and I believe that you can't get anything except it's given to you by God. I go to God in prayers for divine guidance and He always direct my path.
The time it takes me to make major decisions depends on how long it takes for me to get directions. At times, immediately, at times weeks. It all depends and I have never been disappointed.
When it was time to make the decision about my relocation from where I was before which was my comfort zone to my current location, it was a very difficult one. I didn't want to move considering a lot of things including my husband's job and the family at large.
The decision to move looked like a bad idea. No one would consider it in reality because it was like seeing a ditch and moving in to it in broad daylight. Without praying about it, I started looking for ways not to move. I started using my own connections and all but thank God for His love. He called me to order and made me realize that it was a means to answer some of my prayers.
So, I let go and allowed Him take the wheel. The beginning was really rough and it was like I made the wrong decision. It was hard on us, both the kids and myself in a new environment and my husband also started living like a bachelor and comes to visit every weekend. The cost of transportation alone was draining and telling on us after the money we spent getting accommodation settling down, putting the kids in a new school and all.
For almost two years it was difficult and I felt disappointed but trusted His word. When it all started working out, I was amazed at the turn of things and I was happy I took the decision to move.
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