As you all know that there are more than 7 billion people on planet Earth and every human being has some basic needs like water, food, air, clothes, etc. But other than this, a human being needs things that can help them put their lives at ease. Every human being has to face various problems in their life. To get rid of their problems and lead a healthy life, a human being has to gain a sense of balance in life.
Well, a sense of balance is something that can help in hard times and it can't be acquired if one keeps running from his problems. To learn or gain something, you have to work hard for it, or you won't be able to get what you want. Getting a sense of balance in life is not easy, but it is not impossible either. Everyone can acquire a sense of balance in life. But if you run from the problems and don't face them, you can never acquire a sense of balance, and that is why one might suffer in his life.
Also, you can acquire this by reading history books and by talking with smart people. There have been a lot of great people in history. They taught us how to have self-confidence. Their stories inspired a lot of people. Many great leaders helped their kingdom and nation in the past. These stories motivate us and teach us which things are wrong and which are right. To have a sense of balance, you must know the difference between good and bad. Sometimes we go through times when we have to choose between something, and at that time we can't decide what to do. But if you have a sense of balance, you will know what to do and how to do it.
Getting a sense of balance was not easy for me. I had to work through many things to know and acquire a sense of balance. Everyone human doesn't have the same problems in their life, so some people might have a different sense of balance than others. Anyways, I think my sense of balance is also different from others. I had to go through many things that were different from others. When I was about 10 years old, my parents got divorced. After their divorce, I used to stay with my dad and meet my mother once every month. At that time, I didn't know if that was something serious or not.
But after a few years, some people used to bully me, and they also used to say bad things about my mom and dad because they got divorced. At that time of life, I didn't know what to do, so I used to take fights with the people who trashed talk about my parents. But then one day, my uncle saw me picking up a fight with someone (a guy who was saying bad things about my mom). Then my uncle stopped both of us from fighting. The guy ran away, and I was about to run after him, but my uncle grabbed my hand and said, What is the point of doing this? You can't accomplish anything by picking up fights with guys like this; you will just hurt yourself even more.
I didn't know what to say, so I stayed quiet. Then he told me to visit his house tomorrow. The next day, I went to his house. My uncle and auntie said they wanted to talk about something. I could tell what they were going to be talking about, but I still acted like I had no clue. My uncle told me, Look, I know it hurts because you're not a kid anymore. You have grown so much, so I know how it feels when someone says something bad about your close ones.
He always told me not to fight anyone and to keep my patience. In addition he said patience is the only key that can resolve any problem and gave me some books. The books were about how to have patience, and some of them were about the great leaders who were able to succeed in their lives through a sense of balance.
Then the next day, I started reading all the books, and after one week, I finished reading all the books. And I got to know that my uncle was right. From then on, I never took fights with others; I always kept patience, and eventually they all stopped talking bad things about my parents. So it's my uncle who helped me get a sense of balance. I wouldn't have been able to make the right choice if he wasn't there for me. I'm now happy in my life, and I'm able to make the right decisions. Running from the problem isn't a solution; you have to fight it or keep patience so that you can fix everything eventually.
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