Beyond the Buzz: Embracing Life's Choices and Facing Societal Press...

Well, whatever you do, whether it is right or wrong, the people around us, whom we address in society, keep saying something or the other. No matter how much good work you do, someone or the other will do something bad to you. If you have done any wrong work, then a crowd of people falls on you. Well, I don't care about people that much because it doesn't matter to me. If my family members don't have any problem with me, then I don't care about the words spoken by others and believe me, you shouldn't even think about that too. If you are with your family, are happy and are living a peaceful life, then you should be happy within yourself. People keep saying something or the other, you should ignore them because by doing this you will hurt yourself a lot. Will feel calm. But sometimes some things happen that we cannot ignore even if we don't want to and this makes a lot of difference in our lives.

As we grow older, people around us and our family become more concerned about our marriage. Nowadays, most people marry as per their wish but I never pay any attention to it and remain busy in my life, but maybe now the time has come that I should think about it because you people also irritate me a lot. Sometimes people ask questions like when are you getting married, what happened, can't you find a girl and many other things. And believe me, nowadays getting married is not the same thing as before, now a lot has changed around us as well, as we keep seeing, nowadays the first thing is to trust people and it has become very difficult even if you don't want to. You do something that you regret later.

I am not saying that everyone is wrong or that everyone does wrong, that everyone gets ruined after marriage, but I have seen many such things happening in front of me, and now I have lost faith in these things. Rest let's see, whatever is written in our destiny, we will get it, we can only try from our side. Earlier, I was directly refusing this thing, but the family members also put a lot of pressure on me and the atmosphere at home was not very happy. Everyone was worried about this thing. It remained like this for a few months. It continued and then I don't know what happened that everyone forgot about it and now suddenly a new relationship has come from somewhere and they are just repeating the same things, now I am not going to refuse this time because once Nothing is going to happen by meeting, once we talk there is nothing wrong, so I have decided to meet this time.

Believe me, small things create a lot of disturbance in your family and I don't want that to happen again because of me, so this time I have decided that I will respect the decision taken by my parents. Should I do this and in this relationship right now, yes or no, but I will try to meet once and see what else happens, not only my family but my relatives have also asked me this question many times, when are you getting married and the children younger than you are getting married? One gets to hear a lot of things like the fact that she has become pregnant and they have also had children etc. Does something similar happen there too or does your family not talk to you about this? Well, I wanted to live my life alone but I don't think my family will allow this to happen. Let's see what happens. Whatever is the will of God, no one can do anything.

Earlier I used to think a lot about this but from this year onwards I have decided not to think too much about things and just face whatever is coming and face everything with determination. There is no solution to anything by postponing things. If you have to solve something then you will have to face it one day or the other, so this time I have decided to face it. Let's see what happens. I have hope. That something good will happen to it, this time this year I decided that this time I would try to fight things instead of running away from them and perhaps I have been successful in doing so till now. Let's see what happens.