Judging others without even knowing ...

This is fundamental human nature we all judge people by their looks and behaviors. I think this is a common thing we all do imagine many things in our minds. I am sure we all do that, there are so many who say that they don't do this but they know the reality. Sometimes we are right sometimes we are wrong and that is obvious. you can't be right or wrong all the time sometimes your luck is with you or maybe you did get lucky to guess. I am sure we all have polyed a guessing game with our friends in which we just have to guess something about a particular person. That is an interesting game you should try, the only condition is that one of the players does know about the person (that dod makes the game more interesting ). So basically judging others without even knowing did happen automatically this did happen with me a lot.

So let's start the story...

I join my office in 2019 that time I was only familiar with only one face there and all the others are known to me for a few days. It sure took some time to get used to the office environment. There was only a staff of 8 when I joined the office at that time now we do have a team of 35 people in the office it does feel great that we were with them from the beginning days. My boss really appreciates the old people in the office, he always says that we have helped a lot to grow the work in the office so did feel great to hear.

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So, the first day was good I can say what bad can happen I just have to sit behind the designer the whole day and have to look over (learn) how he is working. I did fell asleep that day I do remember that still, the chai wale uncle also did notice that too (that was kind of embracing for me). It is really hard to stay awake if you not working. That day on the office staff was not present, his name was Harry (changed name).

He seems to be popular in the office I did start making an imagination charter of Harry that day. In the evening I hear that he was in the police station since last night. I was new so I was feeling awkward asking about him. like what happened? What he has done? and many more questions were going through my mind at that time. In the evening after the office was over I left the office I used to come back straight to my home (which I don't do now) after that and go for a walk with my few friends.

I thought that Harry must be a criminal type of person that is why he was at the police station last night. But I can not sure how he really was, I haven't talked to anyone about that just making judgments in my mind that day. The next day he came to the office which was my first interaction with him, he seems to be very friendly and he did approach to be with a smiling face. I thought he really been at the police station, but I was still not sure he was the one. I thought he was ender than me after a few months I was aware that he is smaller than me in the age not at the office.

Then all of the sudden one of the office staff asked loudly how was your night at the police station? He started laughing and he made all things clear. He said he was taken by the police that night by mistake. He was not supposed to be there, but he did get involved in that case the reason was his name. The police did misunderstand and took me insured of the real criminal. everyone was laughing after that so did he.

I did feel a bit weird about what I was the thing about him and what he really was. Now we are here in the same office for almost 4 years and we are good friends even though he is my senior but we all do fun together he is a bit different from the others. he is the type of person who is always for helping others (not for everyone though).

This was my story what about you?

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