Being contented is the key to happiness but not everyone possesses that quality.
Some people have been misled by friends into doing bad things but I think they are also interested in doing it that is why they could be influenced.
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I used to be a gambler and I gambled with a lot of things, Playing ps games, Whot cards, Dice, and even when playing football, there is no end to the things we can gamble on, many people would say they were influenced by friends but I wont put the blame on my friends, it was my choice to join them in gambling and that is because I want to make some quick money which sometimes goes well and some other time, I ended up losing money.
The reason why I refused to put the blame on my friends is because there are other things they do that I didn't join them to do, they tried to influence me into doing it too but I just dislike those things.
One of those things is Late night parties, I tried this once and blame myself, Our community hosted a carnival and they fixed the party to from dusk till dawn
I felt so lonely watching them dance and get high because I am the kind that doesn't like crowdy areas and this part is crowded not to mention the smoke in the air making me feel nauseous, I hadn't spent up to 1 hour there before I left to enjoy a peaceful night rest at home, since then I never attempted to attend any night party and I am also not a fan of day party, all party in general because I hate crowd.
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One of my moral codes which I have kept since Childhood is never to hurt others for my own selfish desire or gains.
An incident happened years ago in one of my friend's house, it was a terrible one. We were small as we ain't yet teenagers but not too small to know what we were doing.
They were three brothers, I and one of our friends used to come around to play in their house, so we were five in total.
On that fateful day, their mum went out and left their younger sister at home with them, after we finished playing the outside game, Suwe, we went inside and I don't know the devil that entered into the second born and he suggested we should all have fun with the sister, I didn't understand what he means until I saw him laying ontop her sister and the girl started crying, the other two did the same, I was not interested because the girl was crying and the eldest also was not interested but the other two boys did it with the girl too, we left them in the parlor and went inside, the only thing I heard was the girl crying and it never occurred to me and the eldest child that we should save her...
As mummy's boy, when I got home, I told my mummy everything that happened and she was furious, she stormed out of our house to meet them and they were begging her not to tell their parents, The parents came back late that day but my mum went there the next day to report to their mum and that was when the woman shouted and said she saw blood in the girl's pant but she didn't know what causes it, They were mercilessly beaten including the eldest brother that did not stop his younger brother from doing such evil act to their sister.
I didn't blame the eldest though because he was like me, we didn't really understand what they were doing but the fact the girl was crying made us realize it couldn't be something good, our only offense was not stopping them.
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