You don't have to be a magician to possess this incredible power, it doesn't just save you from trouble but your life as well I'm @cleevesh welcome to my blog.
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Having to say ” Sorry” or having to acknowledge your wrongs sSometimes is a form of maturity, a lot of friends, family, and partnerships have failed due to the unrealization of ” wrongdoings ” while sometimes a lot of people realize that they hurt people but because of their pride they tend to be blind to see their surroundings filled with hurt and hatred, this is common among people working in a company even as small as a nuclear family home you will realize the mother us been toxic and unable to say sorry to her husband or the father feeling need not apologize to his kids for acting out because of his status as “the head”, not knowing how much of a head he’ll when he says ” I'm sorry to his kids”
Also, a lot of people are as well fund of blankby saying “I'm sorry” to a specific kind of people “the soft people” the ones who forgive easily not because they are weak but because they carry a great heart these set of people tend to get played on and the ones who hurt them use that to their advantage because they know they will be forgiven, that's a very bad act and the magic word should be used in that context.
Have I ever been toxic? Yes! Are there times when I didn't use the magic word intentionally? yes!
I remember a time I used to be the youth and teenage leader in my church and I happen to be the strict one and also the kind type (as I thought) then I started to realize that I've been very toxic and I didn't realize, I toke jokes as annoying and took mistakes unlikely and slowly things got sideways, people started backing out and programming started to lack and I was blaming myself for being incompetent even though I was putting in so much of work.
But one day one of them spoke to me aggressively and then I got the wake-up call because I really had to look into what he said which was “when do you ever apologize” then I started tracing back all my actions and things I would have done better in the area of saying sorry, then I reflected on my actions and started to learn to first acknowledge that I hurt people and afterward apologize for my actions, and just like magic things started to fall in place.
Let's always remember, when apologizing, it's important to be genuine and sincere. Take responsibility for your actions and show that you are committed to making things right. Lastly, promise to do better; Explain how you plan to avoid making the same mistake again in the future.
Thank you so much for stopping by I'm @cleevesh and until I see you next time, remain blessed and stay healthy.