Stop having have the thought saying ' you don't have a choice when it comes comes to loving someone or being in love with someone... We are in the month of February popularly known as the month of love, but l dey single Sha aspa I no get babe but I will still share my thought on love, my past experience review and why I believe we all have a choice when it comes to who we love and what to avoid when going into a relationship or signs to stop from a relationship.
One thing I have noticed is that if you are single single... Please embrace it and stay focused, it is not a crime and relationship is not a do or die thing. When you go into a relationship with the right person but you are not whole and have not discovered yourself.. you will eventually lose that relationship trust me. Being single and focusing on yourself is a choice and also being in a traumatizing relationship is also a choice so you know what is best for you and pick right.
Relationships are an essential part of human life, it is even very important when it is getting close to marriage. And truth it shape our experiences, influence our emotions, and contribute to our personal growth. However, many people feel trapped in relationships that make them very unhappy, believing they have no choice but to stay like I said before . The truth is, we always have a choice when it comes to relationships ... whether it is choosing to stay, leave, set boundaries, or work towards improvement but remember these is your life and you need to prioritize yourself more.
You Always Have a Choice When It Comes to Relationships. However, many people feel trapped in relationships that make them unhappy, believing they have no choice but to stay. The truth is, we always have a choice when it comes to relationships—whether it is choosing to stay, leave, set boundaries, or work towards improvement. Recognizing this power allows us to create healthier, more fulfilling connections with others.
Choosing to Enter or Leave a Relationship
One of the most significant choices we have is deciding whether to enter or leave a relationship. Often, people feel pressured by friends, family, or personal fears to stay in situations that do not serve them at all. But staying in an unhealthy relationship and abusive relationship out of fear of being alone which is a wrong believe that need serious counselling and therapy session to eradicate or because of external expectations( money which is very rampant) is a choice in itself. On the other hand, choosing to leave a toxic or unfulfilling relationship can be a difficult but empowering decision one need to make. Walking away does not mean failure yes, it means prioritizing one’s well-being, life, beauty and happiness.
Similarly, when entering a relationship, we must choose wisely. Love should not be based on desperation for material things or the fear of missing out. Instead, we should choose partners who respect us, share our values, and contribute positively to our live in all ways. Rushing into a relationship without considering compatibility can lead to unnecessary struggles and endanger of owns life and health.
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Power of Setting Boundaries
Relationships thrive when both individuals respect each other’s needs and boundaries. Choosing to set and enforce boundaries is an important aspect of maintaining healthy connections. Whether it’s a romantic relationship, friendship, or family bond, we have the right to express our needs and expect them to be honored. Remember you Alway alway have a choice regardless of any situation you find yourself.
Many people avoid setting boundaries due to the fear of conflict or rejection which is unreal but this is also a choice one that often leads to resentment and dissatisfaction in this is very common in African home which I think for father and mother accepted because of their believe and culture but it need to change in our relationship . Choosing to communicate openly and assertively can prevent misunderstandings and foster deeper connections built on mutual respect. Very important
To end it up, No matter the situation, we always have a choice in our relationships. Whether it is deciding who we allow into our lives, setting boundaries, or choosing whether to stay or leave, these decisions shape our happiness and well-being. Recognizing this power helps us cultivate relationships that are loving, supportive, and fulfilling. We are in the month of love so strengthen your mind and soul , pray and mediate and the right decision shall and will be yours.
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