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I want to believe that everyone has a little bit of good in them – even if it’s hard to find. When I was younger, I used to believe that everyone had a soulmate. I thought that there was one person in the world who was perfect for me, and if I could just find them, we would be together forever. So when I met someone who seemed like they could be my soulmate, I fell in love with them instantly.
It turns out that they were fake. They were pretending to be someone they weren't, and they didn't really care about me at all. I was heartbroken when I found out the truth.
Since then, I've learned that not everyone has a soulmate. And even if they do, there's no guarantee that you'll ever meet them or that it will work out between you. So now, I don't put so much faith in finding a soulmate. Instead, I focus on finding someone who is kind, caring, and genuine - someone who makes me happy and whom I can trust.
It's easy to put our faith in someone's soul when we're in love. We believe that they are the person we're meant to be with, and that nothing can come between us. However, this isn't always the case. Sometimes, the person we fall in love with is not who they seem to be. They may be putting on a false persona in order to gain our trust and approval. Over time, we may start to see cracks in their façade. But by then, it's often too late. We're already head over heels in love with them. And when we realize that they're not who we thought they were, it can be devastating.
When we encounter someone whose soul seems not genuine, it can be difficult to tell. There are a few key signs, however, that may give us a clue.
First, does this person seem overly concerned with appearances? Are they always trying to put on a show or impress others? If so, this could be a sign that they are not being authentic. Second, do they have difficulty being alone or being in silence? Genuine souls are comfortable in their own company and don't feel the need to fill every moment with noise or activity. Lastly, does this person seem judgmental or quick to anger? A genuine soul will be more compassionate and understanding.
When we judge someone's character, we often rely on our gut feelings and emotions. We may feel like we know someone is good or bad based on how they make us feel. However, relying on emotions to evaluate character can be misleading. Just because someone makes us feel good does not mean they are a good person. Likewise, just because someone makes us feel bad does not mean they are a bad person. Our emotions can cloud our judgment and lead us astray. It is important to remember that just because we have positive or negative feelings about someone, this does not necessarily reflect their true character.
When you've been fooled by someone you thought was your soulmate, it's hard to know what to do next. You may feel like you'll never be able to trust anyone again. But it's important to remember that not everyone is out to deceive you. There are still people in the world who are genuine and authentic, and who will love you for who you are.
If you've been hurt by someone who wasn't real, it's important to give yourself time to heal. Don't try to force yourself into another relationship before you're ready. And when you do start dating again, take things slow. Get to know the person gradually and don't rush into anything serious too quickly.
Let our children not grow up in a terrible world. Together we can make it better. It is our destiny to
suffer from the past, to long for the future, but to forget the present.
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