Hello Hive Learners, how are you today ?, i hope everyone is good and still exciting to following Hive Learners Contest.
The 12th week contest has started, and I think this time it will be the most exciting contest of the week. We have seen in the 11th week that many contestants have followed and participated in the contest. They've also made a really good contest post and it's really amazing.
As previously stated, the contest for week 12 had just started and this time it was much more exciting than before. And I think a lot of them will enter contests in Hive learners. In this 12th contest, we are required to make a post about Betrayal, I will also give my opinion about it. So, let's take a good look.
Betrayal is something that is not commendable but there are still many who do it, this is because many people are dissatisfied and displeased with their victims. Betrayal often causes the person who is the victim to lose faith in the person who committed it. Betrayal is also something that should not be done if we want to form or be in the circle of healthy friendships. Betrayal is related to Trust because if we betray someone, then we will lose their trust and this will not be able to be returned to the way it was. Betrayal itself is something that has been known to man for a long time, and this is a very fatal mistake.
For myself, betrayal is something that must be avoided because it will have a negative impact on a relationship and the people around us.
Betrayal is something to be avoided, but betrayal is the most committed and sometimes people don't realize when they do it.
As someone who has many circles and also hangs out with many people, I have also experienced what it feels like to be betrayed. But it happened a long time ago, and I don't want to remember it anymore, but I'll tell you a little bit here about it.
It happened when I was still in school, it all started from my circle of friends and in our place there are many circle of friends in the same school, and this is what sometimes causes disputes and not infrequently also causes betrayal. In our group at school, we have one friend who is very loyal, friendly, and also puts his trust in us. We even thought of him as a good friend, myself included. For a few months his relationship with our group was very good, and we also had a good attitude towards him. He was also very sportsmanlike and supportive of each other, but one day everything changed because he had an argument with us for the first time, and we thought it was just a teenager's irritation because we thought he would forget about it, because judging by it, it is a trivia.
His annoyance with us is simply that we have never once accepted his opinion on anything. He also thought that we didn't care about him as one of our friends, and this of course became his disappointment. we realized, in a group, a decision is taken based on the majority of votes and the most suggestions from each member regardless of whether it is good or wrong, and this is what makes him disappointed with us, he feels we are better off hearing the wrong opinion only because he has the most votes, and we voluntarily reject his suggestion even though it is true and as a result of that, he seems to share the risk because of our choice while we don't even care about it even though it is true because his opinion has the least votes.
It didn't happen once or twice, we didn't even include it in the decision making and we realized it was a mistake.
As a result of our actions which he considered unsportsmanlike, he left us one day and this really surprised us of course, because we judged that he was a forgiving person and would forget trivial things like this. But fate said otherwise, his innocent personality seemed to deceive us that he did not hold a much bigger grudge and when we saw him betray, we immediately realized something was wrong between our relationship with him.
After no longer joining our group, he also joined another circle of friends and this time he seemed happy with his decision. He even held a grudge against us so much that he didn't want to talk, greet, or even reprimand us anymore and this made us a little disappointed with him. We didn't expect this to happen, but we also had a fault we weren't aware of with him and he took it very seriously. He's also not a traitor, he's also even become our rival and he hates it so much that he transfers to another school just because he hates us.
But, the rice has turned to porridge, we can't make anything and can only watch it happen. We also will not be able to persuade him to come back and this makes us feel a little disappointed and haunted by the mistakes we made. But it's just an old story, we don't bring it up again and we also talk to him a lot and he has forgiven us too.
Maybe that's one of the betrayal stories that ever happened in my life. In my opinion, betrayal occurs because there is an imbalance and there is also a desire that is not achieved in a group or in a relationship, therefore, it is necessary to introspect on it and try to find out as soon as possible before anyone is disappointed. It also refers to justice, and justice is what keeps this from happening.
I hope you enjoy my story, thank you and see you in the next contest post.
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