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On the 14 November when I met my friend at home on my way to the clinic seeing her outside the house i branch to say hi, you know women now, 😂😂 from greetings to discussion even though we're discussing on something helpful but along the line she said something about me that she had which she was told to be careful with me because am a bad person but according to her that she has been observing me all this while and she didn't see anything like that, so she said I need to be careful with the people close to me.
At this point everybody is a suspect, after leaving her, i began to ask myself bad in Which aspect? Different thoughts was passing through my mind, I couldn't help it, I went back to her, pretending as if I wasn't disturb, after some time, I asked her to tell me who told her that word.
To my greatest surprise, it was the person that is dear to my heart, which I trusted and we shared everything in common, in short, most of the time we are together, I remember people due called us twice because of how we are very close.
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By hearing that, it really broke me down totally, I became speechless, I don't know how to start, from no were, tears was just rolling from my eye, I couldn't think straight any more and to make the situation bad she said I should please hold it within me, I should not tell her but I should just be careful now, even when I try keeping quiet, I couldn't especially when I see her around me, trying to talk to me, it makes me angry the more, I have to advise myself what if God come now it means I will miss it because am holding someone in my mind.
I confronted my close friend on the matter but because am angry, I didn't follow it in a calm and polite way, that was the great mistake I made, my friend was very surprised at me, she said with all the time we shared together in good and in bad times we have been in it together but yet I didn't know who she was and what she is capable of doing, she went on to saying, she always tell people that I and her husband are the best people that knows her better but now she got it all wrong.
To cute the story short, it was all lies, the other women don't want us together, that was why she cook all the stories, from there I have to plead with her to forgive me, it took time for my friend to let go Everything.
what happened has taught me a great lesson
- Don't be quick to judge people especially those around you.
- I have to respect people especially by the way i approach things when am angry
- I have to get to the root of the matter before jumping to conclusions
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