Giving is one of the best thing you can do in life. If you have, it is advised to give to people that doesn't have because giving they say "opens doors".
It is said that, when you give to people, it opens the door for other good things to come into your life because it is believed that one who give will always receive.
But there is an act of giving i tag as "stupid giving" .
Looking at the character and attitude of people in the world today, especially the country i live in, you will find it very difficult to give. Now why is that.
Some people don't just deserve good things. Why did i say this, this is simply because they misuse it and tend to harm others with it.
You will give to your so-called friend, because of greed, him/her will see what you gave as little and an insult to her because he doesn't have much. Then he starts planning evil for you.
This is common everywhere and i call these people "Undeserving people" .. Stupid giving is when you give to undeserving people.
These people will not even appreciate what you have been doing for them, they don't like you simply because you are richer than them, they will always find a way to make you feel bad each time you give to them, using their problems to paint your face and will also tell you that you are not trying for them as a friend, even after giving them almost all you have.
These set of people think you have a tree beside your house that pumps wealth. I don't know the kind of mentality they have that makes them think like that.
For someone to bring out $1 from his hard earned saving and give to you. It is not easy at all. He / she worked his/her ass out to get that money, just to let you have it in a platter of gold and yet, someone will still say it is too small. Should he kill himself for you?
Like i said "people like this don't deserve good" its people like this that will have money tomorrow and start maltreating their housemaid, insulting the poor and all that.
If you have someone like this as a friend, discard him or her because such person will only plan evil for you. Such people will never help you grow.
Give to people that appreciate what you do. Give to people with a clear mind. Give to people that deserves your giving. People like this will only pray for your success because they know that your success will also bring good to them.
And above all, give to people that needs your giving. The less privilege, orphans and the poor.
Giving comes with huge blessings, but for your safety, try and avoid giving to "undeserving people" give to people that really wants your giving.