Hi Hivelearners friends.
Time is changing very fast and now people judge a person's character by looking at his appearance and then imagine that this person must be wrong because his personality is like this. So what I am saying here is that those who know us, those with whom we have been spending time for a long time, know our name, our circumstances, know everything about us, so they can judge everything about us. But those who do not know us at all or have never met us, just see us once and, judging our character and things, spread the same story throughout the neighborhood.
Especially when we shift to a new area, things get much worse in this way and then the people of the neighborhood do not respect us at all, saying that these people are not good. But this is not the case at all because a person looks different from the appearance, but the real thing is his character, his way of talking, his nature, how he thinks about people, does he care about the pain of others. If someone considers it their own pain, then we will have to recognize such a person here. Only then can we know when we meet him, talk to him.
Some time ago, some people had shifted to our society, so from their appearance, it seemed that these people were not good and would mistreat people. Some of their family members who had contacts with people were not good, but we did not know what kind of people they were and they were new here. We had never known them before. So people here and in the whole neighborhood started thinking similar things about them and then we thought of getting them removed from here, but that could not happen because unless someone has any evidence, that work cannot be done.
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/woman-in-white-nike-fitted-cap-and-gray-long-sleeve-shirt-cyes93qm78k)
Gradually, when they started living here, we came to know that these people are good, they pray daily and help the poor people. There were some people in the neighborhood who were very poor. When we talked to them, they told us that since these people shifted here, they have helped us in every difficult time. So this is what I am telling you here, that by looking at someone's face, you can see their Goodness cannot be measured. Whether he is a good person or a bad person will only be known when we have contact with him.
When the word spread throughout the neighborhood that these people are good and help the poor, and a lot of their things came to light, they helped a lot of people, but they never told anyone that if we help one person, then the other person should not know either, because this damages his honor, so these people continue to help a lot in the same way, but we already know how many months have passed, so this is an indication that we cannot judge anyone by their face. When we live with them, we will see their things, how they are living,
And only then will we be able to assess their morals and their poor nature. Therefore, it is better not to judge anyone's entire life by their face, but rather to see their actions. If they are spreading good things in the society and have good morals, then we will think well of that person. All of us local people who were thinking wrongly about him then we apologized to him saying that we shouldn't have thought wrongly about him.
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/two-woman-siting-MFEaiAVEexo)
He was a great person and he didn't mind even then because he was saying that as long as we can't spend time with each other, we can't be friends with each other. A similar incident had happened in a friend's society. There were some people there who looked like gangsters and had big hair. All of them were afraid that things would start going bad in our society. There would be thefts and fights. They called the police and after that the police came there. But none of these people had any background because they had never had any FIR against them.
The police cannot arrest anyone unless something bad comes out against them. But later, when two years had passed, the people in the neighborhood realized that these people were also good. Their faces were a little bigger and they kept their hair long. It seemed that they were completely crazy, but they were not like that. Later, it was found that those people also prayed five times a day. That is why we saw that those who pray, prayer prevents them from doing bad things.
If you stop, then slowly the things and reality of each person come before us, so we should give each other time. We should not make such assumptions about any person. People also make many such wrong assumptions about us and keep thinking wrongly. They hear about us from another person and then they keep thinking about us in the same way for many years. Our nature is not like that at all. But there are those people who keep saying that these people are not good and they have not done good to other people. This does not happen at all. Until we find any solid evidence against any person,
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/woman-in-green-knit-cap-and-green-jacket-rOeYZEjtYz0)
We cannot accuse any person. Our religion has also taught us this. We cannot give any testimony until we see any sin happening with our own eyes. That is why it is better that spreading false information about someone in the neighborhood can harm every person, so it is better that with the passage of time, things become clear on their own,
And the nature of each person also becomes known, so one should not make assumptions based on appearance. I hope you liked this post. You have to tell me if this has ever happened to you.
People must have imagined many wrong things about you after seeing your face and later when they came to know the truth about you, they must have been ashamed.
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/two-men-playing-a-game-of-chess-at-a-table-U1LELxl6wxE)
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