Love they say is a beautiful thing that is when you actually meet a rightful partner that understands you and love you for who you are, will really make such love everlasting.
The topic dropped about our first love really brought back memories which I would like to share mine with how the whole scenario ended
For some people, the first time they fell in love was when they were no more than basically kids or at most teenagers and they did not know much about how love worked at the time. So, tell us about all your first love and how it went. Did it last? Did it progress into a relationship? Tell us, we would love to know!
The whole love story started when I was in higher institution In 2017. I had a friend who was a manager of a bar and lounge in Ogun state, Nigeria where I do go chill when am bored at home because we do stay together then after closing hours we go home together late in the night.
Like I said earlier I was in the higher institution and after lectures I do go home to relax, solve some assignments then when am less busy I will go and join my friend at the bar. My friend who happens to be the manger of the bar have been telling me he needs new workers most especially females to help reduce much work in the business since there's always much customers.
Then there was this faithful day when a lady came that she heard they needed workers and she's ready to work as well because she need the job which was on a Saturday morning, I didn't go to school that day and so I went to join my friend at work. Seeing this lady that day I just derive likeness and appreciate everything about her with the way she talks, smile and also how she presented herself really got my attention.
Though I never approached her that day but told my friend to employ her which he eventually did. She was hardworking and I liked everything about her then I told my friend that I like her and I would love to talk to her. For like two weeks I haven't gone to meet her because I wasn't around I traveled and when I came back my friend said it seems your shy to talk to her which I disagreed but to cut the story short he said he has talked to her on my behalf and she have accepted because she likes me too but still want me to do the needful by talking to her which I eventually did one faithful night around 11:45pm and to be sincere it was a memorable night to remember.
When we were discussing that faithful night she said I offended her and I said how then she said I traveled without telling her, in my mind I said well this is love at first sight lol, just to make her happy I apologize for it not to repeat itself again. We had a long conversation that night till around 2am when I eventually discharge her that she needed to go home to rest after been stressed out for the day.
During our conversation she said she is the type that is after someone that will love her and not break her heart because she have no one she's dating and me coming through was like a blessing to her and she mentioned she's not after my money but my love and to be sincere I had nothing with me because I wasn't working and I was still in school.
We dated for like three years before things begin to change gradually though at first it is not easy to date a girl who works in a bar because they are always been disturbed by customers especially those that spend enough to oppress will sometimes want to have their number and other customers as well. Though she do complain to me about the disturbance coming from the customers and do tell them she have someone she is dating.
Along the line such stopped because she never mentioned anything like that again and she wasn't the type that bills me unnecessarily because she knows am not working then but that attitude changed and she start asking me for things that she knows at the moment am not capable of getting, then I knew something is fishing and maybe something else is attracting her but I still never bothered even though the character looks strange.
One faithful day I had nothing with me and I called her if she was at home and she said yes and my place to where she stays is 30minutes journey with bike but since I had no money with me and my friend who happens to be the manager was not around because I would have asked him for tfare to get to her place. Then I decided to trek and it took me 1hr 30minutes to get there and I never told her I trekked to her place and eventually when I got to her place the first thing I did was to check if she prepared anything and noticed she prepared egusi soup with turkey which I didn't hesitate in serving myself.
Then next thing I heard her saying was am I the one that gave her money in preparing that meal that am not even ashamed of myself coming to a lady house to eat her food. The whole statement sounded like joke not until she said if you know you want to date a lady you should put it in the back of your mind that you should be ready to spend as well.
Tears almost dropped from my eyes and I lost the appetite and trekked back home and since then I never called her and she never bothered as well. Whenever I go to see my friend at the bar she always pretend as if she doesn't know me at all and it all came as a shock not until I saw her kissing a customer in my front damn she don serve me breakfast.
That was how I lost the three years relationship because of money. she came begging after a year that it was her friend that told her to do so since I have nothing to offer and that she's really sorry and asked if we can be back again am sorry dear it is late and I have learn my lesson in a bitter experience.