The fact remains that it's almost impossible to be a perfectionist as each and everyone of us has our own little flaws. But the bright side of it is that on a daily base we work on ourselves to birth a better and stronger version of us.
True we are determined to be good but it disgust a lot when I see people that are not willing to change, exhibiting different kind of characters/attitudes like why ? The most painful of all is when they are advised to adjust their ways and you become their worst enemy. One can't dispute the fact that the truth is bitter and no one wants to hear bad about themselves but at same time it's only a person that loves you that gives you good advice. I have so many dislikes, ranging from being a cheat, hypocrite etcetera.
But my number one dislike is wearing revealing clothes (females)
As a lady and future mother, I find it so annoying seeing other ladies dress irresponsible, putting on wears that reveals theirs treasures. Some many times I wonder how they get so comfortable in those wears? True we all want to look tush and expensive so as to attract rich and classy calibers of people our ways but what the majority forgets is that modesty is the key to attract good things. Oh no please don't get me wrong, am not talking about the Mary Amaka kind of dressing when it comes to modesty so I guess we all understand what I mean right? So my advice to the gen z girls is to dress modest and sweet and I promise that good and responsible people are going to come.
Second dislike is when a person never admits he or she is wrong.
Trust me when I say have met so many people like this, and the truth is that my ex- bestie was just the exact person. At first when we met this person was just all I prayed for in a friend and because of that we blended so well in a little space of time. But one thing is for sure time is the revealer of men. So over time I began to complain of this attitude which usually led to a quarrel. I was not ready to let go so easily so I stayed back not until I was fed up with the whole stuff. I mean there is no harm admitting you are wrong and it's not going to temper with your ego. What's there to say ok I accept am wrong what should I do or how can I do this stuff right? Absolutely nothing but I think is all pride and nothing more.
And unto my third dislike is no other than hypocrisy.
I usually tell people to run away from those that hide in pretence alot, because those people can kill a person bit by bit without the victim noticing till it's to late. One thing is sure about this people is that they are good liers and if they lie it takes the grace of God for you to know. Me personally once I notice any suspicious moves I began to speak less in front of them because you never can tell who they speak to behind you so to protect live I have to watch what comes out of my mouth so I won't end out spilling out an important information.
So as a person, these are my own disqualifications in a person.
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