As human beings our character will always differ, what works for Mr A may not work for Mr. B so that is why everyone has an opinion and what they dislike and like, I may like something which may dislike you, so let me go straight to the point and share my dislikes.
Three things I dislike in people and can or may lead to argument is
1️⃣ DISRESPECT:- Talking about disrespect doesn't mean calling people names with respect, Disrespect towards others for their opinions, beliefs, or backgrounds is one thing I genuinely dislike. I feel that everybody has the right to express themselves without fear of ridicule or condemnation.
Some people are victims of condemnation and this has affected their mental health and also leads to low self-esteem, when your opinion doesn't count it is a sign of disrespect and this is a very bad habit, I can never allow this from anybody because I see that my opinion should always count.
Some relationships are like that where one partner will always feel inferior and the other will be chief over the relationship, I believe relationships should be equal and our opinions should always help and support each other, also family background can bring disrespect to someone, I tried to avoid people who are very useless as friends, who can never keep your family secret just because they know everything about you and they always use that medium to refer to your background whenever you have issues with them, I can never take this from anybody as well. Never disrespect my background or ridicule my opinion.
My second point is
2️⃣ DISHONESTY:- dishonest has many branches under it we have lying, cheating, deceiving, and so on. I dislike dishonesty maybe because honesty and trust are fundamental values in human relationships, and dishonesty can erode trust and damage connections. I love to build my relationship on trust, if you ever give me room to doubt you then the relationship is leading to destruction, building my relationship on trust will make me have a genuine relationship and always give me room to express myself to you at any moment, but as a Friend if can never trust you then we are nothing like just mere person's to each other, I really dislike it when someone is playing on my integrity or lying to me, if I finally find out it can collapse or ruin my relationship with such person.
The last point on my list is just a character that I detest so much in people which is
3️⃣ NOISE, some people are born with that trait of noise, starting from playing loud music as if they are dead, most guys belong to this class because my brother belong to this same class, some will even be playing loud music in the street, walking round the street with music box, this habit can be provocative, I once had this neighbor whose generator noise take over the compound without you hearing anything again, I moved out of the compound because of him, he placed this generator beside my room and anytime he switched on this generator it is just like a disaster for me. In order to avoid problem I had to leave the compound because of his noise.
How Do I Avoid These Three Things?
Firstly I am a peaceful person and It is better to ignore any form of friendship that will disturb my mental health, avoid friends whose ways are not pure, or always live fake lives.
Also, I love Serene environment to avoid problems from my noisy neighbor, I moved to a new place that is so comfortable and quiet, although I can adapt to any environment my neighbor just loves violence more than peace. I move away from anything that will disturb my life or will give me a hard time.
This is my entry for today's episode of the hivelearners community prompt of #hl-w119e1 which the topic is
JUST THREE THINGS
