It's another beautiful and an amazing week. Special thanks to everyone participating and the entire management of this community for the wonderful achievement. It's not easy to sustain this vision in weekly basis.
The theme for this edition is very good and timely because it would help one to improve on order to be a better personality. There is no one that doesn't have a kind of weakness. It could be trait or behaviour or any kind. One thing is to identify it another thing is to work on it so that strength can come out.
Every weakness is an indicator of strength that hasn't been discovered. Hmmm I wish to say that the opposite of weakness is strength vice versa.
Having a weak point is not a problem however it becomes a challenge when it's not identified and handled properly.
Many times the enemy or many people don't considered someone's strength instead they concentrate on the weakness. Sometimes when you settle on the weakness, it becomes difficult to be on an individual even when he proved to be good. One man's weakness is another man's strength this is so because of our uniqueness and make up as God's creatures. I see weak point as a shadow of the real reality of strength. The big question is what would you to identify your weakness? There are lots of indices or sign for one to considered.
- One of the common ways to carry out analysis to ascertained level of weakness is by asking people. You may not know who you are and what you can't do. It's sometimes difficult to know who you are by yourself. You may judge yourself better and rank your self good but when others pass their assessment, you would notice the difference. You can ask what do you see as weakness in my life.
- Another way to identify your weak point is by self examination. This requires a deliberately effort and high sense of discipline. This can be achieved when those weaknesses are carefully written down perhaps on a paper. If you are able to identify the weakness certainly you will breakthrough with the strength. Any weakness identified it means there is a way out or strength for such.
It's very important for one to his or her weak point to avoid competition, covetousness, envy etc. One of the weakness I discovered over my life is the inability to confront some individuals abruptly. Many times I wait until the situation gets cold before I step out. This has really caused a lot of disadvantages to me and also limit my sphere of influence across many places. Simply because of this kind of weakness many have taken me for granted hence doing what they like.
What have I been doing to come out of this? Reading books. It's good to read on the experience of others it will go along way to help one reposition himself to gain mastering over any sort of weakness. Another thing is that you must deliberately accept your weakness work assiduously for improvement. Another thing that could be done is to engage in the instrument of prayers. Pray and commit all into God's hand. Another way to deal with the weakness is to find an elder that can be a good confident. He will counsel and guide you. It could also be as a mentor.
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