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How I Judge a friend wrongly
Few years back, I use to have a friend that was social, a female friend, she was friendly to the opposite sex and I thought she was wayward because of how she is living her life, we were very close friends but I didn't know her as a friend should know is own friend.
Someone came and told me that she has gotten pregnant by a young man who was serving their one of the secondary school in my town, when I heard about it, I was so down cast, I didn't confronted her but I kept it in my heart trying to see her begin to manifesting symptom of pregnancy, then at that same time she felt sick and I concluded that she is pregnant, when she had about what I said she was disappointed because she never thought I will ever conclude over the issues by sending someone different to ask her of what happened to her rander than talking to her myself, she ended up disappointed in me, I was so embarrassed.
How I judge and later got it right.
Recently a young lady is staying with us, and she is in her tin, she is just a 13 years old girl, I was telling my wife that this girl has started seeing a man and my wife is telling me how do you know, I said to her, I know by what am seeing, she will stay outside at night and be the last person to enter the room, she will go to the back of the house and say she is going to rest room while there is rest room in the house she will not use it but that going to the bush.
I told my wife I smell something that is going wrong but you won't believe me, one day we were at home, my wife and I were inside the house writing while she was outside alone the young boy that has been going out with came and she met him behind the house were I park my bike, and I wanted going out that night she was behind the house playing love, when I heard them talking I first of all called my wife to hear them talking before I went myself and cut the both of them, then she understands that I knew it for long, she started pleading.
I called the both of them, I ask to go to the room and wait for me while I talked to the young boy who is just 18 years old, I cancel him and went in and likewise to her then I left.
Leason I personally took to heart.
•Never rush into conclusion over people because you may end up losing them for life.
• Try to study people before making decisions but don't draw conclusion because change is constant.
•Every person you meet be careful on how your first meeting is because it may be your steping stone.
•Value everyone you meet you may end up adding to that person life by how you live.
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