Hello everyone
Before I start writing today, to be honest I have to take a breath for a moment, because I am confused about where to start about before the marriage happens must follow a prenuptial agreement, meaning the division of assets if after marriage there are several cases so that you have to separate from the two couples, this is obviously meaningless at all and does not work, The purpose of marriage is of course to unite two people who love each other and want to live together until the end of life separating them, before a marriage bond occurs, of course there are several points that must be studied well All points related to marriage, without love in a relationship it will be difficult to build a harmonious relationship.
To be honest, I've been married for almost five years, there are several problems that occur in a relationship after marriage, the twists and turns of life that we start from zero to become successful are the dreams of all couples, but you have to think first, marriage without love that is in the hearts of the two couples, of course there is something that they hope for, whether it is assets or a certain amount of money, Slowly the marriage will fade away and lead to divorce, everyone hopes that a marriage will last longer and no one wants a separation.
I think a marriage has no bond at all with premarital, meaning a contract before marriage, I don't think there is anything that needs to be done, because if someone starts with love and understands each other and accepts each other's shortcomings, of course this relationship will last forever, even if there is a storm that hits the couple, after marriage we will build a new family that lives together from our parents, Everyone is facing everything, what about the problems that occur, are you ready to face it? Almost every day a problem will arise if the century cannot solve it, you don't need to look for a solution because if you want all problems to be solved, there must be a solution if you want to.
Every problem that arises personally I always try to adjust to it in a cold way, don't be too selfish to maintain an unimportant idea in a relationship, selfishness is certainly one of the most dangerous in maintaining a household, as these days many divorce cases are happening everywhere, I think that this marriage is solely for the world that pursues something, It is very unfortunate if divorce cases are increasingly exploding with various aspects or unimportant reasons, why do divorce cases occur? Is there no love in their hearts? It's hard to answer, the way to maintain a relationship is sometimes different, mostly if one partner has a sense of love, it will certainly solve all the problems that exist because they are afraid of losing their loved ones.
I think that eternal love will always be there, there is no need to look for it, love is fair, that is, complementary, understanding each other, if it is not applied in a relationship, of course it is really unfair, if there is someone who wants to propose some things before the marriage bond occurs, with the love for each other in every couple, maybe for me it has completed everything needed in marriage, Slowly the marriage relationship with the love in his heart will go through several aspects in the future.
Maybe this is all my understanding of today's topic, hopefully all married couples can keep it until death to pick him up. Thank you very much to all of you who have taken a little time to read this post of mine, hopefully it can be useful for all of us.
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