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The socialization is one key part of human life. This is the one part which differentiate is form other species. The social life paly a crucial role in overall development of a child. When we talk about the social life, out neighbours are one comes into our mind in first place. A good neighbours make your life heaven and if you have bad neighbours then they have the capacity to make your life hell also. A good neighbours is a blessing if God in my opinion to be honest. One line told by my Mother always comes into l my mind when even I think of neighbours, she always says that the Neighbours are the our first relatives as they are one living very close to us. It may take some time to reach our relatives to our place in case of emergency buy the Neighbours are just next door, so they are one fastest approachable person. My experience with my neighbour is mix type or I can say is positive side more.
I was living away from my home for more then 1o years after the completion of my education for job. After the marriage mr and my wife rented a flat and I left the share accomodation. When you are bachalor it more economical to rent a flat jointly. After shifting to new rented flat my first worry was that my wife will be alone through out the day and it was first time she was away from the family. But my worries were gone when I come to know that the flat next to me was owned by one of my company mate only. I felt so relaxed after meeting the neighbours family which was my company mate also, her wife was so nice and very helpful. She treated my wife as her younger sister and that was the reason my wife do not feel that she is away from the home. This was the one of biggest support I got from my neighbour. They were family of four people - Husband, wife and two kids. We were in that society for more then 8 years and I never felt that we are two speeate family. We use to share the happiness and sorrows. No doubt they were very helpful and I still remembered a day when my wife was suffering from high fever and she was so week that she asked me to help her to even stand. I was holding her but suddenly she got unconscious, I was so scared seeing her condition. Our kid was 1.5 year old and she was also crying like anything. I such situation the find thing come into my mind was calling out neighbours. She immediately come and help me with our kid.
After almost 8 years we shifted to an another colony as the owner of flat want to sell the flat. We were in same city but in an other sector. In new society also there was also one family of one of my colleague, but there were two houses in between us. It was a row house property, one ground floor and another first floor. The owner was shifted to a other location so he rented both the portions. We were in ground floor and the other family was on second floor. At first the family above was looks very nice but after some time we understand their nature special the lady in the house. She was a social worker also, and mostly engaged with some activities around us. Upto this everything was ok but suddenly she start interfering in our life. She start asking my wife to take part in social activist she is involved in. My wife use to say that she will ask me. My wife has a habit that when ever she goes out of house she use to call me and informed me. That's right also to informed our partner but our neighbours lady take it other wasy. She spead the rumers that I am taking control of my wife and my wife has to take my permission whenever she goes out of house, that was completely nonsense. My wife take it seriously and distanced form her. Fortunately I got transferred and we left that place. I was happy as I got the transfer to my choosen location and also got away from those neighbours.
If I taked about my first neighbours I completely trust them but this was not the case with second neighbours.
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