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Every one in this world is world comes with some quality or ability in them, some are good in sports, some are good in sports, some are good learner, some are good dancer or singer etc. No body is perfect or is good in all aspect. When we were good many time we received comments like - that kid is good in study and why we are not try to be study like him. Every one has its own quality and when we start compare someone's quality with someone other like we witnesses many time in our childhood, that create the pressure on us. In my opinion a little pressure is good for the overall growth of us but an excessive pressure create negative effect on physical and mantel health. I still remember during a job interview, I was asked if I can work under pressure, and reply that I perform good under small work pressure. Their are good chance of making mistakes when we work under pressure, and mot of the pressure is to complete the work or job early then the expected time. I guess all other will also agreed to me that we work good under small amount of pressure. In todays world we live in a competitive world and pressure is one aspect which make us to do better, to improve. Its helps us to be focused and it helps in professional and personal life.
When we talked about the peer pressure then the first impression we all have is the negative but its not that outcome of the peer pressure is always negative, in many cases it create the positive effect also. When I joined a company which was located in the western part of the county, the main challenge was the language and the food. I was unmarried when I joined the company and got married within the 1 year of the joining. I am belongs to the northern part of the county and the food choices are completely different. I was away from the home after completing the 10th standard, first for the higher education and then for the job. So I was used to have any vegetarian meal because it not like we will find the food of our choice. For me the food was not an issue, and as I was living in the month, I start liking the western food also. But for me it was still an issue as she was not knowing how to prepare the food other then the our native food. Fortunately our neighbor was also form my company and that was very friendly family. We use to share any special dishes we prepare. In our floor there were four flats and in each flat there were four families from four different states of the country. So it was like a mini Indian at same floor. There were two kids at our floor, one was our child and other was the child of family living in front of our floor. Both kid were play together and many time have food at each others house. When both kids grown up and it was the time or child was more like the South Indian and Marathi food and the other kids form our floor was more like our Punjabi food. My wife was not knowing how to prepare the Marathi (bhakri) and South Indian (Dosa and Idli) food. At that point of time my wife decide to learn how to prepare the food, liked by me and our children. She asked both of our neighbor and learned from the online videos. I have witnessed the improvement over the time and now she is master in the cooking.
My wife accept the challenge and make a way out also. The peer pressure is not always bad thing and many time it become the reason for improvement. Even now also we have shifter near to our native place but still we cook the South Indian and Marthi dishes, and when our neighbor taste it they always give a compliment.
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