A lot happens in this life that makes people have to think about doing something, in childhood we were referred to as children when we did something not necessarily what we did was right because it was very difficult to distinguish it when we were still at the point of forming a character, and at the time we were children became the main impulse of the parents in shaping the character of the children and had to be wise in doing it in order to become a better person because of the person who Smart, smart and wise are the main factors of parents if parents do not educate children properly, of course perfection in children will not be achieved optimally, therefore parents become the main role models in shaping children's character.
When I was a child, I used to be said to be a very lazy person doing housework and I also liked to go to a friend's house very much so it made my father very angry with me. But it is also necessary to know that the anger from the father will not last long. In each family of course has its own rules and in my family also has very strict rules my father strongly forbids his son to go out to play and without exception every child is forbidden to play so my father buys some feed animals, such as goats, buffaloes, cows and the like and we are all required to take care of the animals when we wake up in the morning we are told to go to school and after school we have to take care of the animals again and playing time is only at school if I am at home and my brother will not have time to play anymore.
When I was little I never thought that what we did turned out to be all for our needs because we went to school from elementary to university, everything needed a lot of money, so we were all required to help the family's economy, because my father didn't work in the government, making it very difficult for finance our education, moreover college will require a lot of money. Therefore, what my father does is help his children go to school and live a better life in the future.
As for when I grew up, everything was answered clearly, no matter what my father did, but still, when I was little, my father didn't spoil me, because we were all very afraid of my father, so I didn't have time to be in my father's arms. , even if only for a moment, and to be honest at that time I was very jealous to see that my other friends were very close to their father but I wasn't. Because that's the subject of my discussion this time. If in the future I become a father then I will not do the same thing as my father did to me and my younger sister even though what my father did was for a good cause for his children in the future but still it is something that unpleasant for a child. Especially young children because I really felt my discomfort when I was little.
Because I didn't get imperfect comfort and pampering when I was a child, so I will do everything to be close and give love to my children in the future because the comfort between child and father is needed to be able to get a better thought. Indeed, providing comfort to children is quite difficult, but of course I will try my best for them.
Alright, friends, maybe in the discussion this time, that's all I can say and if there are mistakes in writing, I apologize profusely because I wrote in my regional language, namely Indonesian with the help of Google to translate to English and that's all from me See you again in the next discussion, of course, in this beloved community.
About me
My full name is Edi Suryadi, many friends on hive platforms call my name Idayrus, I come from the country of Indonesia which is especially located in Aceh Province, I was born in 1997 until now I have completed my education in college with a bachelor's degree in Science Communication. I like interesting and unique things and I am also a photography and art lover and new things so on this beloved platform I will share about photography, art, traveling and other interesting things.
