it's cruelty and the way there's these old age homes full of old people that are either kicked out of home by their own sons and daughters or they're forced to be in that place cause they cannot take care of own parents anymore.
This thing has always boiled my blood and it's mostly coming from millennials, they're more interested in inheriting parents property or once they become independent...they don't care about parents and leave them at their own.
Retirement Homes or Family for the Old Parents
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There's a lot of things that can go wrong in the family and than eventually after some heat things go back to normal but in case with parents or old parents
You have to be careful, if something happened in your home - don't put the blame on them parents
But there are cases where in heated argument grown up man say something to parents that breaks their heart and they'll just leave the home and go to some retirement house or shelter for old aged people.
In that case I believe you as a son have lost in this world and the here after because breaking old parents heart is something god will never forgive
And should go try everything to get them back in home but only if you've learnt your lesson and know the guilt also make promise to not do that again
But if you don't have any guilt, parents are far more better in retirement home and they'll take care of those parents way better than their own blood.
Family is where they feel loved and alive
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In my country there's some cases where son/daughter will start to call old parents as they're burden
Take notes of everything like what they're eating, what they're saying, what they're doing is going to pinch them like they should just stay on the bed, don't eat and say anything like they're not alive
That's an example of cruel people who can't even have mercy on their old parents.
So in that case, parents in retirement home is a blessing because they'll feel loved and they'll have a life there.
No one will be there to call out on everything you do.
So for that mental peace of the poor old parents it's better to take them there.
blessings for the lifetime
For this one thing you should do everything whole heartedly for the parents no matter if they're old or not.. the care, respect and love should always remain same as they gave you when you were the kid.
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Imagine if they didn't feed you in childhood, imagine getting your favourite toy/gadget or snack and than in return you leave parents in some retirement home.
I can't even imagine and there are some people who did this thing and that's why these old age homes are full.
Everyone wants blessings in life and there's only one way to get it and that's by taking care of parents when they're old. You'll be rewarded not only in this world but also hereafter.
Wrapping Up...
I can live a life full of regrets but can't live if the regret includes not taking care of my old parents.
I want to give them this world, this life and everything. Not just my parents but the one's that are alone or left alone by their own child in some retirement or old age homes.
That's one of my dream and will make it a reality one day.