Job as a waiter where one meet with all kind of people Good or Bad and you have to interact with all of them at any cost.
Life of a middle-class is full of hustles and i belong to one. My parents is only mom and she was doing job as a teacher to support family but the expenses were increasing and income earned by her was barely enough for the whole month so i had to find a job and soon found one at a marriage hall.
16 Y/O Waiter at Marriage Hall
Two Thing's are unforgettable 1. First Love, 2. First job. I still remember the First day on my first job.
I was nervous and at the age of 16 only i was scared too. Fist day, 10 am in the morning at marriage hall. Meet with the hotel manager he literally said "You're too young for this & i know you won't comeback after going back to home".
I said nothing and than he introduced me to a senior co worker "More like a bully". He was aged guy like 25 or close.

Since the very first day till the end he was always rude or acting crazy in front of me for literally no reasons. I never complained but he kept bullying me all the time.
When i went back to home first day i was dying but i knew thing's like this happens only in beginning.
My Two Years Experience as a Waiter
Those two years were nightmare for me being waiter felt like sh!t because of people. I started hating myself and physically i was weak for the work I've done there but mentally strong enough to bear the torture.
Waitering at marriage halls might sound easy?
But spending 8 or 12 hours long nonstop work, preparing stuff in hall from counting each and every seat to plate's or glass etc
From 1st floor to roof top without lift weighing 30kgs on my back step by step around 10 or twice rounds was something i never imagined for.
Those stare of people were the worst feeling ever, Washing thousands of dishes from dusk till dawn sometimes two shifts at 3am and reaching at 4am than 11am in the school (evening shift) without saying a word to mom was something I've never imagined or maybe some people won't believe.
i was offered to drink Alcohol & take drugs by coworkers

Imagine offering 16 year old Alcohol or drugs? I Got offered and refused it instantly because my mom grew me up not to get involved in all these things but to be responsible and can see what's Good or bad.
From alcohol to smoke or other drugs I've Got offered plenty of times but always refused them. They wanted me to become a drug addict and join their gatherings but coz of my mom teaching's or principals I'm safe.
positive or negative impact of first job
The most impact i had was on my studies & being absence from school or left behind from others. during the time of working day's which were mostly (Friday- or off days only) the record of my progress in school was kept getting darker or darker.
- Positive impact
It Boosted my self confidence. From what people think or say about me mindset to I don't give a F. Got to know the real faces of people in this world. Making money isn't easy & spending them for a good reason. It made me strong enough to do anything confidently in my life ahead. Being Responsible and owning my responsibilities in a better way.
The reason i quite was finding a better job for myself or focus on learning than doing own business. I had done job on fast food restaurant it was also worst job after that i also learnt a technical skill which was much better and will help ahead in daily life.
Since covid happened and found blockchain or social platform like Noise or read where i first continued my journey as a writer and now hive or continuing my studies or writing passion is much better than a job at this age - Don't Change my mind.
Like it's a blessing for thousands of people who are happily making their living much better through these platforms.