Change your perspective, the world will change for you

Life is not a bed of roses and in life when you have to struggle for many things. Sometimes we become successful and sometimes we become a failure and both are part of our life. Many of us can accept success easily but in case of accepting failure, we are not so flexible. It's hard to accept a failure and our failure hurts us again and again. But it's also said that failure is the pillar of success. So why don't we accept our failure as our inspiration? It's because of our thoughts and most of the time we think about anything from a negative perspective.

In my earlier time, I used to think from a negative perspective most of the time. This is the thing for which I wasn't a confident person and some kind of hesitation always exists in my mind. I became unhappy, sad and cried for many reasons thinking about many past incidents. In fact at some point when someone used to humiliate me or beat me, I used to think about suicide considering that I was living the worst life where everyone wanted to control me and dominate me. I was trying to find an escape way and maybe that's the reason suicidal thoughts came to my mind but I wasn't brave enough to execute my thoughts into reality and maybe because of my parents. I wasn't able to do it any time. If for any kind of reason my mother used to scold me, it usually made a huge impact in my mind. Those moments were a critical time for me. Except for my academic cases, I wasn't successful in any kind of sector. I used to feel lowly and below-average person who had nothing special. I was the most unlucky person in this world according to my thoughts at that time.

My life was going like that. In the middle, I started to read various kinds of books and I have read several books on Psychology which gave me a lot of knowledge to understand psychology and the basement of a positive mindset. Coincidentally, I watched a motivational video of a YouTuber whom I used to follow for study purposes. In the video, he came with a clear glass and he filled the half with water. He said "You can say I filled half a glass of water or you can say I kept half of the glass empty. Technically both are right but perspectives are different. It depends on where you focus. You have two options. One is to focus on half a glass of water which is filled and the another option is to focus on the empty space of the glass. Like that in our life, there are many failures, successes, good, bad, happy, unhappy beautiful, and sorrowful moments. Just think all the good ones are half glass of filled water and the bad ones are the empty space of the glass. So it depends on you where to focus. If you focus on your happy, beautiful, and good moments, you will feel the heavenly feeling. A positive energy will surround you and that thing with help you to progress in life. Again if you focus on your failures, sorrowful and bad moments you will feel the feeling of hell, and naturally it will give you the negative vibes and it will be reflected in your activities."

The final message was "Change your perspective, the world will change for you".

I read almost similar things in psychology books also and the video triggered my mind. From the time I started to think positively. In the beginning, it was not easy to start practicing it but little by little I made it my habit to focus on the positive matter. Indeed, it is magical and I can feel the difference now. Now I feel I am the luckiest person in this world and every positive thing will happen to me. Right now I can find positivity in the negative situation also and I think it's very good for me. I can feel the positive energy around me all the time and I am living a cheerful and happy life.