In friendship, financial status doesn't matter.

In the current time, we can say that money means power because power comes out automatically if we have money. Money is the solution to many things and for that reason, people are running after money. It's true that money can't buy happiness but it's also the truth without money we can't be happy. At least I have never seen anyone happy without money.

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Friends play a very important role in our life and we don't think about our life without friends. In most cases, the bond of friendship creates automatically mostly in academic institutions. In the time of making friendships financial status doesn't play any role. After becoming friends we can know about the financial status of each other or sometimes not. In my case, I never asked anyone about their parents and their financial status because it was unnecessary for me. I am able to know about their financial status if they speak about it by their own.

Those people who make friends after watching the financial status of others are not friends ( my opinion ). It's friendship, not a business deal.

So today I am going to share about one of my friends. I hope you will enjoy reading about him.

In the time of intermediate level ( XI-XII class ) I found four friends who think almost same to same like me. In fact, the common mentality of the 4 makes us friends. I feel very good because I found four friends at my intermediate level. 4 friends with the same mentality mean huge things to me. One of them was Tuhin and I am going to saying about him.

In the case of personality, he was the same as me. Still, I am saying about him a little bit. He was a cool person. Angerness is rare in his personality. In fact, I have never seen him in angry mood. A smile is always on his face when he talks with anyone.
In college life, we both knew about each other and education only. None of us asked about our financial condition anytime. After 2 years we admit to 2 different universities and we were isolated from each other but we connected through smartphone and most of the time I used to talk with him through voice calls in WhatsApp.

After almost 4 years I was able to know about his financial status and he said about it because of a finance-related topic. His father was a doctor at army camp whole who took retirement recently. They have one building of their own and they have transports which also helps them to earn a good amount of money. They have almost everything to enjoy life. In a word, he belongs to a very rich family. I was a little bit surprised also because his appearance was very simple that nobody can predict his financial status.

After knowing the truth still now whenever I poke him saying rich he starts to debate because in his opinion he is not rich and he belongs to a middle-class family. I say it for fun purposes.

I still talk to him. In fact, before writing this one I called him and said I was going to write about him but I didn't say what I was going to write.

He was my friend. Still, he is my friend and he will remain my friend in the future also because I believe in our friendship and finance has nothing to do with it. As he thinks like me, he also thinks what I think about friendship.