"There are things I don't like, but I keep my mouth shut." ~Lenny Bruce
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Hello Hive Learners Community!! Human has different traits, behavior and characteristics. We all have various likes and dislikes. These dislikes are different for everyone and it include physical objects, behavior and traits in people. In this blog I am going to talk about the three things that I deeply dislike. Let's discuss why these things bother me so much and how I have managed to live with them. These things are mentioned below š:
ā¢ Backbiting
ā¢ Close-mindedness/Conservative Behavior
ā¢ Littering in public place
Let's discuss these human traits and behavior in details :
Backbiting :
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Backbiting is moral degradation that causes many other social and moral evils. The main reason of backbiting is jealousy and envy. In our society when one failed to attain the lifestyle others are living, one start jealous of them. He/she start spreading hateful stuff about that person in his/her absence.
I'm unbearable when it comes to hear backbiting. I'm used to hear the backbiting my relatives are doing about my family but I don't react over it. In their presence I often talk about the moral values and refer Hadith about backbiting so they reform their morals. Let me share one reference here š:
Once Holy Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) was going with two men. Holy Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) listened them while backbiting and remain silent. On the way they have to pass through the donkey flesh. Holy Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) asked them to eat donkey flesh which they response that it's worse and prohibited act. Holy Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) said that backbiting is more worse than eating this flesh. It waste your worships and good deeds.
I'm sure one day backbiters would realized, backbiting is a cancer for human relationship and social life.
Close-Mindedness/Conservative Behavior :
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Close minded people doesn't accept the change easily. Their conservative behavior doesn't let them think logically. Conservative people are living with ignorance and intolerance. In my homeland Pakistan, there are some tribes where women's access to education is denied. They limit women with in the four wall of house. This hindered the progress of a nation and individual.
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Whenever I encountered a woman whose desired to get education is suppressed by family, I don't step back to motivate her and convinced the family. I explain them how women are working shoulder to shoulder around the corner of the world. Now-a-days a female minister is serving in our province that's an important role model for the women. I'm referring the female minister for inspiration although I am not impressed by her policies.
Littering In Public Places :
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Littering in public places is also my significant dislike. I hate to see garbage in public places. Littering in public places is disrespecting your community and homeland for me. It also contribute in global warming and pollute environment.
Cleanliness is half of faith. I'm always up for cleaning my community and removing garbage from public places. I'm never ashmed of it.
Conclusion :
We should reform our moral values from dishonesty, backbiting, jealousy and envy. We should avoid of those traits that are harmful for our individual and social life. I dislikes some of the traits and behavior of people doesn't mean I hate them. I would end my blog with a very beautiful lines written on a Police checkpost š
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This blog is my submission to Hive Learners Featured Content week 119, edition 01 "Just Three Things"
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That's all for today's blog.
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