In living this life we will face various problems and problems, but dealing with this attitude requires great maturity so that we can solve these problems. Likewise in this life we are inseparable from things, namely giving and receiving something from someone. In terms of giving it would be nice if something we give is an object that is useful to use and so should we as recipients it would be nice if we accept whatever is given regardless of value and size.
If we receive something that is given by someone, how beautiful it would be for us to accept it graciously and also accept something, don't look at its size but we just accept it, maybe we can't use this object today, maybe in the future it will be useful without our predictions. but we have to accept the person's gift and if we refuse the gift, we are afraid that the person will be offended and maybe he will get angry.
What if someone's gift we don't deserve? In my opinion, we just accept what the person has given us first, whether it's worth it or not, then we give it to other people who need it, for example, a friend gives us a new dress that is very beautiful and very beautiful, then we can't wear the clothes, here we have Another idea is to give it to our other friends who are more appropriate and fit to wear these clothes. And if necessary, we tell the person who gave the clothes that we have given them to someone else because we don't deserve to wear them. Or we immediately reject the person's gift and we tell him that it is best if the item is given to someone else who needs it more and I think the person who gave something will be offended or will feel sad because we don't want to accept the gift.
Then do we deserve someone's gift that we don't know who gave it. In my opinion, all gifts from people are very appropriate for us to receive, especially when we need what is important, we accept it graciously and thank people who are generous enough to give something, then we make the best use of the item, but suddenly someone else asks for the item, if we don't need it so we should give it to someone else.
In the world, giving and receiving is no stranger because we are social beings who need each other in carrying out this life. We cannot live without other people, as well as other people. In this life the hands above are better than the hands below, meaning we are better off being givers, than being receivers, and if we have the ability to give.
Here a giver will be more noble than being a receiver and something we give will lighten the burden of the person who receives it, for example we give some money to someone then our gift will alleviate that person's financial problems and we will become a noble person in the eyes of our god and our lives will be happier and more prosperous. life will be more peaceful. therefore, let us be people who give with the possessions we have.
We recommend that in giving something we first see what they need, don't just give something later that we give is not suitable for use. And so, if we receive something from other people, we better see if the gift is useful for us, but if it is inappropriate or inappropriate, then we recommend giving the gift to someone who is more deserving or deserving of it.
From my discussion above, I can draw some conclusions
Humans are social creatures who need each other.
Humans in their life give and receive each other, because in this life we fill each other and live loving each other
The hand above is better than the hand below, meaning we are better off being givers than being recipients
We recommend that in giving something to someone we see the feasibility or we see if he deserves that something
If we become recipients, it is better for us to accept what others give, but if we don't deserve it, we suggest giving it to someone who deserves it.
A giver will be more noble before his Lord and that person will live a prosperous and happy life in this world and the hereafter.
If we have excess wealth and energy then let's be generous people who help people who need it.
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I wrote the writing in this post in Indonesian and I translated it in English using the help of Google Translate