Mind you, this isn't about romance. There are times good relationships amongst people or between pairs fail abruptly for reasons that might be inexplicable. However, when people fall out, one of the reasons why the relationships are never repaired is because of personal ego or keying into an emotional justification and moral rightness.
I mean, some people explore all the possibilities of being right but never try to check loopholes to see if there's any chance they might be wrong. Now, people who feel this way are used to being good people, their deeds, their actions, or intentions feel overly good.
They're used to people telling them how good they are, that's why it becomes difficult for them to check their excesses especially when the external validations about them have never been negative.
The truth is, when people fall out with themselves it's difficult to express the exact reason especially when a grudge becomes an invisible obstacle.
However in every fallout, some people are principal defaulters, and their attempt at redemption might determine if a relationship gets repaired. Some people who default find it difficult to make amends due to pride and self-aggrandizement. What makes a relationship irreparable is when two parties, both the defaulters and the ones at the receiving end fail to come to an understanding due to the doggedness in their sense of rightness.
However, the most terrible thing is when the principal defaulters fail to admit that they've defaulted.
What saves a relationship is when people work towards building bridges and disregarding their sense of rightness
However, we live in a world where people thrive in seclusion and find external validations for their actions rather than attempting to make amends.
Another problematic situation is when people who are perceived as the main reasons why human relationships fall apart decide to make amends but they're never given the benefit of a doubt.
I can say the best people are those who try to salvage a broken relationship without checking to see if they were right or wrong.
These people are rare because it's difficult. The human psychological anatomy is complex, people find defeat in repairing what they didn't destroy and while this is valid enough, we will continue remaining at loggerheads as "two wrongs" don't make "one right".
There are people who you attempt to salvage a relationship with and it proves futile. Sometimes it requires the evenly matched selflessness and readiness of two or more people to salvage a crumbling relationship. In this regard, some people used to be our "ride or die", but over time, we find the connection to be broken because of distance in understanding.
Mind you, there are different reasons why a connection between people is severed, but the underlying reason is seeing futility to what used to thrive.
Another thing is, that life battles alone can make people sever their relationships with others
When people are going through things, they're likely to find no pleasure anymore in the things that used to give them joy. However, some other people can just hide the true reasons why a relationship is broken because they don't feel like talking about it is worth it or would change a thing.
Sometimes others are just too hurt by what others have done, they just completely kill the relationship irrespective of the attempts of others. In reality, wrongdoings in human relationships don't matter, the intentions are what truly do.
To some, this sentimental analysis or evaluation doesn't matter, if their emotions feel right, they just go ahead to act on it. But sometimes ending a relationship might be for good, sometimes it might not, but then, we can be overly right or completely wrong. We're humans, our state of imperfection is a proof
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