To be honest, I’ve never seriously considered becoming a social media influencer. It’s not that I don’t admire the people who are able to build a platform and engage with their audience—i actually see many of them as talented and hardworking individuals. But then when I think about the lifestyle and the responsibilities that comes with it, I just know that it's not for me.
For one thing, being an influencer often means promoting products or services, and that’s where I feel a bit uncertain. I’m someone who sometimes struggles to decide what’s right for myself, let alone guide others on what to buy or do. It’s actually an huge responsibility when people rely on you to make decisions, whether it’s advising them on lifestyle choices or endorsing a product, that kind of authority feels like too much pressure for me. I wouldn’t want to lead someone in the wrong direction or even recommend something I’m not fully confident in.
Then there’s the fact that I’m naturally quite shy. The idea of putting myself out there, constantly facing the public and being in the spotlight, doesn’t sit well with me. Influencers have to create content regularly by showing their faces and personality to the world. For someone like me, who prefers staying in the background, this would be uncomfortable. I enjoy my privacy and i love to keep my personal life to myself. Becoming a public figure who has to entertain and engage with thousands or even millions of followers is something I’d rather avoid.
For instance,If you check all of my social media accounts—except for Hive, which I joined recently—you’ll notice that I’m active and most times online, but I don’t post pictures or videos of myself. I’ve always preferred not showing myself and I don’t think you can truly become a social media influencer if people don’t even know who you are or what you look like.
Another thing I’ve noticed is how influencers often feel pressured to live up to a certain image. Many of them have to portray a flashy or luxurious lifestyle to keep their audience interested. But that’s not who I am. I like to keep things simple and authentic, and I can’t imagine trying to live a life that is shaped by the expectations of an online audience. It doesn’t just sit well with me when i have to impress people constantly, especially when it could lead to living a life that’s not truly mine.
Overtime, i have also observed how some influencers feel the need to do exaggerated or even absurd things just to stay relevant. Whether it’s posting controversial content or engaging in trends that seem ridiculous, the idea of doing something solely for attention isn’t appealing to me. I’ve always valued being true to myself, and I wouldn’t want to compromise that for the sake of trending online.
The negative side of being in the public eye is also something that would be hard for me to handle. I’ve seen how influencers on platforms like X or TikTok face a lot of online harassment. They get body-shamed, criticized, and emotionally attacked, even for things as simple as posting a video or sharing their thoughts. That kind of negativity can be overwhelming, and I don’t think I have the emotional strength to handle it without taking a step back. Constant scrutiny from people who don’t even know me would feel too intrusive.
Privacy is another thing I value deeply. I like having the freedom to live my life without constant outside interference. Being an influencer means your life is constantly on display. Even something as small as going out to a restaurant or visiting the gym could turn into content that is shared online without your consent. The idea of being filmed or photographed without knowing doesn’t sit right with me. I love to be in my own space where I can enjoy life without worrying about how it might be perceived by others.
Interestingly, I do admire several influencers. On platforms like YouTube, TikTok, and X, there are people who have mastered the art of connecting with their audience in a genuine way. I respect that. But I also know that it’s not the path for me.
For me, my real passion lies in agriculture. I’m an agricultural student, and I see myself building a future in farming. That’s where I feel most connected, and it’s something I can see myself doing long-term. Of course, I’m open to exploring other business opportunities outside of farming, as long as they align with my interests and are higly profitable. But as far as becoming an influencer? That’s not a direction I’d ever seriously consider.
What about you? Do you think you could manage the responsibilities and challenges that come with being a social media influencer? Would you enjoy being in the public eye and handling the pressure that comes with it? Or would you choose a different path?