Hey Everyone!!
In today’s fast-paced, competitive world, the pursuit of success has become more intense than ever. But in this chase, something has drastically changed — the values that once shaped true growth. The modern narrative of “pushing others to make your position” has silently seeped into workplaces, schools, and even personal relationships. Instead of building something new or unique through individual hard work and creativity, many have started believing that the only way to rise is by stepping on someone else.
It’s heartbreaking to witness how, rather than being inspired by others, people now see their peers as threats. There is a constant pressure to outshine, overpower, or outmaneuver, even if it means pulling someone else down. This toxic ideology has deeply corrupted what success truly means. The principle of growing together is often replaced with ruthless tactics of elimination — as if the world has space for only one winner.
One of the most painful aspects of this mindset is seen in workplaces. Juniors are often exploited for credit, ideas are stolen, and efforts go unrecognized. The same juniors who are treated as tools today might have been great leaders tomorrow, had they received encouragement instead of exploitation. On the other hand, many people find themselves constantly pleasing their seniors, not because of respect, but out of fear and survival instinct — believing that maintaining their favor is the only way to survive in a system that doesn’t always reward merit.
Progress today, in many places, is no longer a matter of talent or dedication. It's about who you push down and who you impress. This not only crushes the morale of sincere individuals but also breeds an unhealthy environment where trust, collaboration, and empathy fade into the background.
What we need to remind ourselves is that true growth doesn’t come from pushing others down. It comes from pushing yourself forward. The world is vast enough for everyone to create their own space — a space that’s not earned by hurting others, but by believing in one's unique abilities and contributing with honesty.
We need to bring back the culture where success is not a game of survival but a journey of support. Where instead of fighting for the same spot, people help others climb and make their own path side by side. Only then can we call our progress real and meaningful.